luckyyy Posted May 30, 2008 Share Posted May 30, 2008 So I've seen people mention in a few other threads where the couple have a nice meal, watch a movie and then sometimes the girl might give the guy a massage and a BJ and expect no return. I can't remember if any guys here have said they have done it to their partner but I was thinking about it... Would it be cool if I did this for my gf, I really love her and sometimes think she deserves the attention that she often gives me. The problem is, EVERY time we have ever had oral (we don't cum from it) we ALWAYS have sex. So do you think she would be cool with it if I just kinda gave her a great massage followed by some oral? I don't fancy talking to her about it as I want it to be a bit of a surprise when she is tired, it's not like we don't communicate well because we do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i_win Posted May 30, 2008 Share Posted May 30, 2008 Yeah I do this with my gfs all the time. As you begin tell them that you appreciate everything you do for them and you want to treat them and when they reach for your pants, gently and romantically tell them that you appreciate it, but tonight it's just about her. It always pays off in the end. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PapaSmurf Posted May 30, 2008 Share Posted May 30, 2008 is there a problem with it ending in sex? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
agent1607307371 Posted May 30, 2008 Share Posted May 30, 2008 What if she wants the sex? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Russ Posted May 31, 2008 Share Posted May 31, 2008 In personal opinion, when the girl is trying to rip off the pants, she's not doing it to be a good samaritan. While I make a rule not to push anything, I've never rejected that, and it's never led to issues. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luckyyy Posted May 31, 2008 Author Share Posted May 31, 2008 I did see your thread but you aren't the only one who has posted something similar to this. Obviously I love it when we have sex but I'd love the night to just end in me doing everything. I want to do it because I love her obviously but if it makes her love for me stronger then so be it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anggrace Posted May 31, 2008 Share Posted May 31, 2008 I use to do that quite a bit. I think it would be a good idea to do the same for her from time to time. To show that you enjoy pleasuring her as well. That you're not doing it for selfish reasons. Im sure she'd love it. I would of. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kenshinkitten Posted May 31, 2008 Share Posted May 31, 2008 If my boyfriend did this to me I would be very happy. But I would want sex, just cause I can't orgasm from oral and I would want to do something for him to and he can't orgasm from oral either so... If he refused me the sex saying it was just about pleasuring me I would get a little annoyed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PapaSmurf Posted June 1, 2008 Share Posted June 1, 2008 maybe you could cook or set up other nice things for her to let her know you care so if the evening does end up in sex she feels like you care Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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