What would you do?

[annie24]

he told me no. he said he can't commit to that and it is a big deal for him.

 

bah!!!!

 

i would let them into my place for a week, absolutely. if our relationship is solid, and he needs a place to crash, of course i would. plus, it would be a good test of how we got along for a longer period of time.

 

i don't see why it is a big deal for him. i have certainly let my friends do the same thing, and i wasn't planning on marrying any of them. lol. ask his best friend if you can crash on his couch - i'm sure he'd say yes.

[annie24]

I can't help but think he is hiding something. My gut tells me he is cheating on me and that is why he doesn't want me to stay there.

 

you know - listen to your gut! that's how i feel. i think your gut is always right.

[Lana0120]

I agree with the others and would add that this, in addition to what your gut is telling you, are strongly indicative of the fact that you should strongly consider dumping him.

[RayKay]

he told me no. he said he can't commit to that and it is a big deal for him.

 

What is he committing to? He is having you stay there for a week, that's hardly moving in together!

 

I am sure you have spent the night over at one anothers places, or travelled before together?

 

Even if there is nothing untoward going on, this is a bit of an odd response and for me a definite red flag about his actual commitment to you, or how he will be there to help out in the future.

[Kitz]

of course i would.... man, my boyfriend tries to make me spend weeks at his house - im the one trying to leave and go home!!