Darryl2312 Posted May 22, 2008 Share Posted May 22, 2008 Hi Folks, Ive been seeing this girl for 2 months. Firstly shes not ready for a relationship boyfriend she says. We do everything a normal couple does, holds hands, have fun, kiss, are intimate etc. I just dunno where it is going, shes said that she understands if I wanted to find a real long term girlfriend. But at the same time we got concert tickets for October, to me thats a little too forward planning ! She has been bably hurt in the pas, me too maybe this is a factor ? Help ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tulip rose Posted May 22, 2008 Share Posted May 22, 2008 She has already told you where she stands. If you can't accept that then leave. You will only hurt yourself by hoping that things will change if they don't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tethys Posted May 22, 2008 Share Posted May 22, 2008 Agree with Tulip. This girl is telling you she doesn't want a relationship with you. She likes your company, but that's about it. If you are wanting more, it probably won't happen... sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lady00 Posted May 22, 2008 Share Posted May 22, 2008 Do you want a relationship? If yes, bail out now before you get more attached and set yourself up to get hurt. When someone says "I don't want a relationship" and the other person does, it's going to lead to huge problems. Better to get out early before you fall in love and it gets harder to leave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted May 22, 2008 Share Posted May 22, 2008 Hi Folks, Ive been seeing this girl for 2 months. Firstly shes not ready for a relationship boyfriend she says. We do everything a normal couple does, holds hands, have fun, kiss, are intimate etc. I just dunno where it is going, shes said that she understands if I wanted to find a real long term girlfriend. But at the same time we got concert tickets for October, to me thats a little too forward planning ! She has been bably hurt in the pas, me too maybe this is a factor ? Help ! you already know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zeitgeist Posted May 23, 2008 Share Posted May 23, 2008 Mmm...I disagreee with the majority opinion here. I think it's possible that she's just being cautious. I think you can proceed, but I would also try and keep your feelings in check. Don't fall for her - she'll see it and she'll feel pressure. In her state, that's a bad thing. Give her plenty of room, and ZERO pressure. Play it by ear and see where it goes. It's a risk, but great love never comes without it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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