sad-soul Posted May 11, 2008 Share Posted May 11, 2008 If a guy says to you that he wants to be friends for now first, and he wants to get to know my thoughts and feelings and develop it slowly into something else, does it mean he thinks things are going a bit too fast? He says he wants to get to know me first. He is much older than me and I know he is much more mature than I. I know in my last relationship we both rushed into things and we didn't take the time to get to know each ohter and things were not working the way they should and we broke up, which is painful because I did love him. But it is just something I am not used to taking things slow and starting with friendship. It actually makes me feel that the guy cannot be interested enough to be my boyfriend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heavenearth Posted May 11, 2008 Share Posted May 11, 2008 It is not a bad thing. Either he did learn through experience that rushing in doesn't produce desired outcome, or he really wants to get to know you better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CallingAllAngels Posted May 11, 2008 Share Posted May 11, 2008 Sometime the BEST relationships start out as friends, so no, I would not say this is a bad thing at all. Maybe he has been burned in the past as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lana0120 Posted May 11, 2008 Share Posted May 11, 2008 It could be construed in different ways, but personally, it sounds like he just wants to take it slow. Perhaps he is worried about the age difference and is concerned about getting hurt. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted May 12, 2008 Share Posted May 12, 2008 what do you want? u like this guy? take it slow and progress then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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