kickedin Posted May 4, 2008 Share Posted May 4, 2008 We broke up in early feb(fourth time in three years) i left alot of stuff at her house clothes etc....i havent contacted and vice versa... i went out with her brother last night and some mutual friends and we were having fun and chasin skirts yadda yadda ...she texted him to come out he said it was guys night and i was there she responded "ok be careful and keep an eye on him" whatever that meant.....we joked about it this morning because its always 3-4 months when she wanders back so this afternoon i get a text from her(first contact since march 1) " hi xxxxxx im sure you need your clothes ill be sending them to you this week ive just been so busy sorry" i havent responded yet.....she always tried to be subtle before when we got back i just dont know if she is salty because either her bro or one of the guys told her about the night and now she decided to be a snot about it becuase its very ironic to me..... i also stopped at her moms yesterday which im sure she told her i was there and she was apparently at a wedding last night by herself(who knows) i m scared of my feelings for her but dont know what to do? any ideas guys..... i thought about sending a simple thank you ver much xxxxxx and see what happens Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i_win Posted May 4, 2008 Share Posted May 4, 2008 Simple - don't respond and stay away from her. Don't let history repeat itself. Let this time be different and allow yourself to heal and move on. That was just a typical lame, weak attempt at contact and doesn't deserve a response at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoPainNoGain Posted May 4, 2008 Share Posted May 4, 2008 I agree. Leave her be. Go out,enjoy yourself. Its sunday Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kickedin Posted May 4, 2008 Author Share Posted May 4, 2008 Simple - don't respond and stay away from her. Don't let history repeat itself. Let this time be different and allow yourself to heal and move on. That was just a typical lame, weak attempt at contact and doesn't deserve a response at all. not even a simple thank you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoPainNoGain Posted May 4, 2008 Share Posted May 4, 2008 not even a simple thank you? Thank you for what. For texting you 2 months later Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kickedin Posted May 4, 2008 Author Share Posted May 4, 2008 Thank you for what. For texting you 2 months later for sending my clothes back........i very close friends with her bro....so its kinda tough just so confused shes the only girl i feel like i can never decide on the right answer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DN Posted May 4, 2008 Share Posted May 4, 2008 Leave off the kisses but send a short note thanking her and say that you be glad to receive your clothes at her convenience. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazyaboutdogs Posted May 4, 2008 Share Posted May 4, 2008 Leave off the kisses but send a short note thanking her and say that you be glad to receive your clothes at her convenience. I agree with this. Don't you want your clothes back? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kickedin Posted May 5, 2008 Author Share Posted May 5, 2008 i sent her a text "thanks XXXXX" nothing more............. and i got no response Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kickedin Posted May 8, 2008 Author Share Posted May 8, 2008 still no clothes...maybe today lol now im beginning to wonder what shes up to? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i_win Posted May 8, 2008 Share Posted May 8, 2008 still no clothes...maybe today lol now im beginning to wonder what shes up to? This is exactly why you don't send it. Because now you have all these questions and are analyzing things now. Better not letting her decide how you feel from day to day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kickedin Posted May 16, 2008 Author Share Posted May 16, 2008 This is exactly why you don't send it. Because now you have all these questions and are analyzing things now. Better not letting her decide how you feel from day to day. still not a word or item.....now i wonder why she even bothered texting me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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