HumanBeing26 Posted May 2, 2008 Share Posted May 2, 2008 It's actually taking the half we've given them back and dusting off their remains off us. We were perfectly happy individuals, and I stress the word INDIVIDUALS before meeting them. We are perfectly capable of surviving on our own, with our friends, with the new opportunities. Getting our FREEDOM back isn't a trivial thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brokenhearted87 Posted May 2, 2008 Share Posted May 2, 2008 Hey! This is something I've been trying to tell myself A LOT!! My ex was my first love, first "real" relationship, first everything really Before him, I wasn't the type of girl that bothered with boys/worried about being single etc. I was/am very studious and worked hard at school/college and my part time job every weekend. I loved going out with my friends of course, going out might involve the odd kiss with a specimen of the opposite sex, but that was it and that kinda suited me fine, unlike a LOT of my friends who seemed to suffer from "I need a boyfriend" syndrome. SOOOO I get what you are saying, completely!!! I think it's just really hard to put in perspective when it's the ex as an INDIVIDUAL that we miss and love and feel rejected by, not the concept of a bf/gf....because I have and can easily live my life without one.......it's HIM I miss. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ifloatabove Posted May 2, 2008 Share Posted May 2, 2008 It -is- really hard to focus on the individual aspect of it. We were happy once without them but a part of us was happy with them and getting back to that is definitely something you have to take the time to do. I always thought of myself as a girlfriend. Now I have to focus on myself and how to be a better person by myself before entering into anything new. It's all I knew too for the longest time. We'll survive, we just have to take the time to figure out how. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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