dazednconfused Posted April 28, 2008 Author Share Posted April 28, 2008 in a way i kinda feel like he wont meet me in the middle very much.. like i have to find a way to stop being so insecure and needy etc and then it'l all be ok between us coz i wont start all the arguemnts coz of my insecure questions. i feel that if he loves me he could accept that i am not hard nosed like him and i do have my insecure moments and to be understanding about it and respond to my questions (no matter how silly they may seem) in a cool, calm n understanding way... then it wont lead to any arguments (i dont think). yea i do feel he is expecting me to do all the work and work on myself to stop being so insecure but maybe he needs to work on himself with his anger problem and his not being able to understand that not every human being can be so hard nosed as he is Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midnightrambler Posted April 28, 2008 Share Posted April 28, 2008 I have several male friends from the Net so yes, it is possible to have friendships with opposite gender that is platonic, however, I would not meet them one on one alone unless I invited my SO or he couldn't make it and told me to go anyway. kind of you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dazednconfused Posted April 28, 2008 Author Share Posted April 28, 2008 he just text me saying "im sorry and i love you" does this mean he understands why i was upset? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
savannahohsavannah Posted April 28, 2008 Share Posted April 28, 2008 Um, I still have to ask why you are so involved with this man over the question of being with another person? I can hear that you love him, but the *but I'm in love with him* reflex response does you absolutely no good in this situation. If I weren't married or engaged I'd just let it go for a while. Tell him you need a two week cooling off period to think about it all. Savannah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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