Hope_Springs_Eternal Posted April 30, 2008 Share Posted April 30, 2008 the interesting thing is that if they leave you because of 'fight's... they'll leave the next person when fights start as well. good point... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EyesOnThePrize Posted April 30, 2008 Share Posted April 30, 2008 breaking up because of fights ISNT worth it. you are fighting because there is an issue. not necessarily a major one, just an issue. and you havent learned how to effectively communicate and handle your emotions so that you can find a solution reasonably. plus communications styles can be so totally different so you've got to find the way each person best communicates and work together towards resolution that way. This was a major problem in my relationship, and I'm working hard on my communications skills to make sure it doesn't happen the next time around. usually one person gives up because they'd rather start over with someone new instead of get down to the nitty gritty and figure out how to resolve things without 'fighting'... arguing is healthy in a relationship. fighting is a result of letting arguing get out of control. probably at a result of immaturity on one or both sides. I think there was some truth in this in our relationship, too. I think we were both stubborn and proud and thought the other person would change if we either yelled loud enough or waited long enough. the interesting thing is that if they leave you because of 'fight's... they'll leave the next person when fights start as well. and lets face it, arguing will always be inevitable. the other person you're dating ISNT you and will never be YOU. so you can guaruntee you'll bump heads at some point. Yup...I expect this with my ex and slimeball within months...certainly by football season. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wtm78 Posted May 1, 2008 Author Share Posted May 1, 2008 i totally agree 100% Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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