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It is so hard to give ourselve to someone, laid bare and naked, heart open to raking. And they do. It is a cheat. It is a sham. But we must remember it is them, not us, that is the succubus - or misogynist if you prefer. We - nay, you, did the right thing. Do not let them destroy the dream. There is someone out there.

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Im having a BAD BAD day. Im imagining how happy he is in his new relationship and i want to contact him and hear his voice, but i cant i know.

 

im going out to take my mind off it and off him but i feel really low

 

Hope...I'm sorry you are having a bad day!!!! I'm here if you want to vent!!!!! Try not to think about him! I know it's like asking you not to breath! Just try to do things to keep yourself busy!!! Like posting on here, reading, working, writing.

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Yeah thinking of them with someone else is never fun....the only comfort I ever take in it is one day I won't care....I don't care about what any of my other ex's do and one day I won't care about what my current ex does...intruth she won't be much of a thought in time...time to time I am sure she will come up but fade just as quickly.

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Im having a BAD BAD day. Im imagining how happy he is in his new relationship and i want to contact him and hear his voice, but i cant i know.

 

im going out to take my mind off it and off him but i feel really low

 

The only thing that keeps me going is that there's always tomorrow. And please, no singing. I spent the entire weekend feeling that way. Everything I loved is gone... the man, the job, the life I THOUGHT I was enjoying. I don't know what happened or why and frankly I'm effing TIRED OF IT ALL! I actually cancelled therapy because I am tired of ANALYZING it. It's NOT rational and will never make sense.

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Oh I feel ok, the past few days have been harder well not harder, but I think I fully accept things now so I am jsut working on healing and moving on with my life. I don't have it in me to date right now. I just don't so I am just coasting along.

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Right now I wouldn't date anyone really, even if my soulmate walked up to me just couldn't....hell I would even deny sex right now....I have a few times already just don't have it in me hahaha....

 

Wow...nick...you feeling ok???

 

Wow. I agree. That's probably the ONLY thing I miss. Access to regular sex. It's driving me crazy a little bit actually. I don't think I'd be strong enough to deny someone I was attracted to much less my soulmate. I hope you feel better soon.....

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Oh don't get me wrong I miss sex a lot even more so since my sex life was lacking for a long time, I am the most sexual person you will ever meet, I just don't have it in me right now because if I do I will end up making someone fall for me and it isn't something I need.

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Lit, fairy,nick, eyes, ramsickle...omg, you wont believe what happened.

 

i was having a bad bad day, well, morning anyway, woke up feeling really c**p with him totally on my mind blah blah blah so i went out to take my mind off him and window shop.

 

I went to this sort of heritage centre shopping area near to me, and was sitting down for a minute with my latte. The guy on the next bench asked me where I got it, I explained, he went away, came back with one and sat down on the next bench again and started talking. We got on great and guess what? we have a date for Friday! can you believe that?!

 

I mean, its unlikely he's the love of my life or anything like that, but from such a horrible start its ended up cheerful.. yaaaaay

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Lit, fairy,nick, eyes, ramsickle...omg, you wont believe what happened.

 

i was having a bad bad day, well, morning anyway, woke up feeling really c**p with him totally on my mind blah blah blah so i went out to take my mind off him and window shop.

 

I went to this sort of heritage centre shopping area near to me, and was sitting down for a minute with my latte. The guy on the next bench asked me where I got it, I explained, he went away, came back with one and sat down on the next bench again and started talking. We got on great and guess what? we have a date for Friday! can you believe that?!

 

I mean, its unlikely he's the love of my life or anything like that, but from such a horrible start its ended up cheerful.. yaaaaay

 

 

 

YAY!! Just what you needed...a little pick-me-up! I'm happy for you!!!

 

(((hugs!)))

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