Litgirl01 Posted April 19, 2008 Share Posted April 19, 2008 Awww! Tazzy cat! I had a cat named Muffy for 12 years...I loved her so MUCH! She got cancer and I had to have her put down! Was a TERRIBLE time in my life...I get tears thinking about it!! I put her on a memorial website...made me feel good to honor her memory, so I know what you mean! Now I just have my Belle girl! image removed BELLE Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tazthecat Posted April 19, 2008 Share Posted April 19, 2008 Awesome looking cat..Sorry for hijacking this thread..I've not told my story yet(kinda feels like an episode of LOST), but in time when I can actually word it right, I'll post my story..(and damn what a movie of the week it would make) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Litgirl01 Posted April 19, 2008 Share Posted April 19, 2008 Thanks!! I want to hear your story!!!! My life is like a movie also! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tazthecat Posted April 19, 2008 Share Posted April 19, 2008 Heh, I'd have to classify my life as science fiction, cause no one would believe it..lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JadedStar Posted April 19, 2008 Share Posted April 19, 2008 The thing with not sticking to NC in times like this is even tho it brings TEMPORARY relief when you are lonely it is like relieving the same bad dream over and over. NC hurts for a good while but you are on your way to a healing path everyday. The pain lessens. Those who refuse to do NC live on an up and down plane of torment. They put the bandaid on and it gets ripped off again and it repeats. If you didn't do NC you might feel some relief and solace from the loneliness but then what? When he speaks of her your gut gets ripped out again. Or when he leaves and there is no goodbye kiss...not being able to hug him, etc. This is serious emotional torture. People who refuse to do NC frequently stay in an up and down emotional state constantly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EyesOnThePrize Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 I am definitely a dog person more than a cat person, however the ex is a cat person, and 2 of them came with her from Indiana (we gave 1 away because he didn't get along with the others) and somehow we got up to 5! I still prefer dogs, but I love my cats, too. Except the one that came with her from Indiana that sprayed me in the face Thursday night. DISGUSTING! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Litgirl01 Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 Lmao!!!!! Hahahahha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tazthecat Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 Score one for the feline!! I'm thinking your EX planned that to happen with the cat..lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Litgirl01 Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 Taz...that's what I thought! My little fluffy wuffy princess baby girl doesn't spray her momma!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EyesOnThePrize Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 This cat is neutered, and has sprayed for years. I told her that she could take him to Texas. She says "He's too old." I laughed...he's a year older than the cat I am going to send to her. She just didn't want him spraying all over the place! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
segor56 Posted April 20, 2008 Author Share Posted April 20, 2008 The thing with not sticking to NC in times like this is even tho it brings TEMPORARY relief when you are lonely it is like relieving the same bad dream over and over. NC hurts for a good while but you are on your way to a healing path everyday. The pain lessens. Those who refuse to do NC live on an up and down plane of torment. They put the bandaid on and it gets ripped off again and it repeats. If you didn't do NC you might feel some relief and solace from the loneliness but then what? When he speaks of her your gut gets ripped out again. Or when he leaves and there is no goodbye kiss...not being able to hug him, etc. This is serious emotional . People who refuse to do NC frequently stay in an up and down emotional state constantly. Jaded. I really agree with you on this one. Breaking NC is a temporary solution for a bigger problem. I don't have room for that emotional . It's completely ridiculous to do that to myself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Litgirl01 Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 I agree ^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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