segor56 Posted April 17, 2008 Author Share Posted April 17, 2008 He texted back: "OK" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Litgirl01 Posted April 17, 2008 Share Posted April 17, 2008 He is fine...I mean, he IS pretty self-sufficient! ;-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
segor56 Posted April 18, 2008 Author Share Posted April 18, 2008 so- I never heard back from the ex. Honestly- it's a relief... because it's justification that it is indeed really 'over'. I started NC... and with starting it... somewhere you feel like there is still 'a chance'. Well, he is letting me know that there isn't. I guess it's a huge kick in the * * * * to start moving forward in a new direction. Saying goodbye for good to what 'could've' been. Make sense? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Artop Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 I see it as they are doing me a favor. It will hurt in the short term, but in the long run, you can finally close that chapter in your life and move on. Hang in there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
segor56 Posted April 18, 2008 Author Share Posted April 18, 2008 Thank you, Artop. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
segor56 Posted April 19, 2008 Author Share Posted April 19, 2008 Bringing this topic back into the forum simply to say something a friend told me that was interesting... In reference to the $5000 cash BOBO displayed durning the date: My friend immediately said... "He was testing you. He was showing you cash to see how you'd respond." Ok, why would he do that? She said, "Many, many men do this because some women take cash for s* x." Ok. This completely FLOORED me. WHAT AARTWOEIUEWOU?>>>>>>!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And the more I thought about it... his actions that night all moved in that direction. This is soooo gross and I can't believe it!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tazthecat Posted April 19, 2008 Share Posted April 19, 2008 I guess this is one of those times where failing a test was a good thing..You showed him a beautiful woman with morals, and sent the man home with a bottle of lotion!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
segor56 Posted April 19, 2008 Author Share Posted April 19, 2008 I guess this is one of those times where failing a test was a good thing..You showed him a beautiful woman with morals, and sent the man home with a bottle of lotion!! Unreal!!!!! and thank you TAZ. I love ya. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Litgirl01 Posted April 19, 2008 Share Posted April 19, 2008 Did he mistake you for a prostitute??? * * * ???? Gross...good thing you dumped that guy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
segor56 Posted April 19, 2008 Author Share Posted April 19, 2008 Did he mistake you for a ??? * * * ???? Gross...good thing you dumped that guy! RIGHT!!!! Hello!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NOT A Pros. . NOT EVEN CLOSE!!! I asked my friend that question too. She said- there are a lot of classy woman who take $ in situations like that. She went on to say- he sounds like this is his lifestyle and the way he was approaching you is the way it 'works'. A couple of things came to mind.. A: How do you know this? B: W T --- F?! She is a sweet - so (A) is not the case.. but... I just couldn't believe it. Can dating get ANY STRANGER ????????????????/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Litgirl01 Posted April 19, 2008 Share Posted April 19, 2008 Gawddd...I'm surely not looking forward to it!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lights Posted April 19, 2008 Share Posted April 19, 2008 Happens to the best of us. Usually a bad date sends anyone spiraling into regret or missing their ex, because they remember what was GOOD about the relationship instead of what was bad. Completely normal, don't beat yourself up. Just try again. You might meet a few more guys like the one you described, but you can't stop trying. They aren't all bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EyesOnThePrize Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 Can dating get ANY STRANGER ????????????????/ You haven't dated me yet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Litgirl01 Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 She told you that your arms are too hairy which means you...yeah!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EyesOnThePrize Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 My superhero identity. image removed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karvala Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 You haven't dated me yet. Gotta love the "yet" at the end of that. Optimism never dies in Las Vegas. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thejigsup Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 One of the things that attracted me to my current bf is that he did touch me on the first date. I had spent 5 years with a man who had little or no sex drive whatsoever. When T touched me in a very sensual way I was flattered and, well, turned on. I slept with him the next night and we are still together many years later, and the sex is better than ever. If the guy turned you off, I'm sorry, that does make the touching a bit gross. But don't hate him because he made a pass at you, men are made to desire women and vice versa. Doesn't mean they don't see you as people, or you them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kluv224 Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 You're not a fool. In your situation I would have prolly done the same thing. You will move on though and I would stop going on blind dates lol! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
segor56 Posted April 20, 2008 Author Share Posted April 20, 2008 One of the things that attracted me to my current bf is that he did touch me on the first date. I had spent 5 years with a man who had little or no drive whatsoever. When T touched me in a very sensual way I was flattered and, well, turned on. I slept with him the next night and we are still together many years later, and the is better than ever. If the guy turned you off, I'm sorry, that does make the touching a bit gross. But don't him because he made a pass at you, men are made to desire women and vice versa. Doesn't mean they don't see you as people, or you them. I don't*** him for making a pass at me. I think the way in which he did it was absolutely absurd. I agree, though.. that it is nice to know that someone is physically into you for sure... but, it has to be a mutual thing and he wasn't interested in my 'lack' of interest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Litgirl01 Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 My superhero identity. image removed LMAO!! Sick!!!! Made me laugh though!! LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Litgirl01 Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 Hmmmm...segor was that ^ the guy you went on a date with?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
segor56 Posted April 20, 2008 Author Share Posted April 20, 2008 Pretty much= but he wasn't that charming- nor did he have on such a cool outfit! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Litgirl01 Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 Oh boy Segor! Here's hoping that the next one will atleast be human! ;-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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