hanny88 Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 just curious to know how many girls fake their orgasm? or ever have faked? what were the pro's and con's of doing so? and weather there are any guys out there that have faked aswell? tell all!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocio Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 never done it. I'd be afraid he'd know the difference. How do you simulate that kind of thing anyway? Just practise your kegels and moan a little? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hanny88 Posted January 24, 2008 Author Share Posted January 24, 2008 i know plenty of chicks that have done it, just to hurry and get the session over and done with! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nixee Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 Definitely have, unfortunatey.... but definitely prefer not to. pros - gets things over with when you want things to be over with, keeps a guy from getting all pouty and worried over the fact that he didn't satisfy you (and thereforeeee excusing you from having to calmly explain to him that it is ok, that he doesn't need to worry, that its no big deal, etc. etc.) cons- well... pretty obviously... if you fake it you aren't getting the real deal, now are ya? Plus... you don't wanna make them think it is THAT easy, now do ya?? Truthfully though... I think honesty and communication should always be the goal for the best sex life in a committed relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Entomon Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 i know plenty of chicks that have done it, just to hurry and get the session over and done with! Guilty as charged! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jeffrey_Lebowski Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 a friend of mine faked one time because he just wanted to leave the girl he was with...apparently it was one awful one night stand Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
android12 Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 haha guilty, done it once and never again. it too was to end it quickly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scootchy Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 You stop yourself from enjoying yourself fully if you fake it, you let us deceptively think that we know what works now, when in truth it didn't work for you at all because you fake it. Help us learn how to please you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 i know plenty of chicks that have done it, just to hurry and get the session over and done with! why have sex with someone if you are in a hurry to 'get it over with'? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Natty7 Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 I have done it, plenty in the past, but not anymore! I dated a guy that I didn't want to hurt his feelings so I faked it. Slowly but surely it turned into me faking it more than I was really getting it. And there is the major problem! I was teaching him the wrong way, he thought what he was coming to the table with was actually working because of me and my deception!!! Learned my lesson, I don't do it anymore. I am much harder on my b/f now and he knows I expect one every time, and if I don't get one~ he knows it. I am not afraid of hurting his feelings, cause if I didn't get there~ I just didn't get there. No hard feelings, just try harder. I would never fake again~ it really only hurt me in the end. But guys, do you really care? Or is it like Jerry Seinfeld said: "We men know you fake your orgasms... and you wanna know how we feel about it? We're fine with it. You do whatever the hell it is you gotta do." ha ha ha ha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nixee Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 why have sex with someone if you are in a hurry to 'get it over with'? Because maybe on Monday you really really want to, but he is the dead tired one.... but then on Tuesday, he is the one who won't stop coming on to you. So.. you compromise.... and .... then, it happens.... your body is tired. I'm not saying it is the right thing to do, I'm just saying that it happens. Lots of situations happen. Not every sexual encounter is perfect like we want to imagine them in our head. The best we can do is strive to be as honest as possible with those we care about and learn from our mistakes. And for the record, YES, I do think faking it is ultimately a mistake if you do it with someone you truly care about and are with long term. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 i'm guilty. i faked it with a girl lol. i flushed the condom before she could see. it was not a gf. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ryan123 Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 I dont think guys can fake it...Well not as good as females can anyways since a guys orgasm is external and a girls is internal. Unless of course shes a squirter. But a female can do kegels to replicate the contractions that occur when she orgasms and she can obviously fake it orally. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 I dont think guys can fake it...Well not as good as females can anyways since a guys orgasm is external and a girls is internal. Unless of course shes a squirter. But a female can do kegels to replicate the contractions that occur when she orgasms and she can obviously fake it orally. oh, trust me. guys can. i had success in my faking. i've only done it once though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Natty7 Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 oh, trust me. guys can. i had success in my faking. i've only done it once though. When the tables are turned... EEEEK~ I think it would be horrible if a guy faked one... Oy~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 When the tables are turned... EEEEK~ I think it would be horrible if a guy faked one... Oy~ she didn't know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Natty7 Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 she didn't know. I bet. But it is pretty much common knowledge that women fake orgasms... but when put to the other gender... it's insulting. lol... guess it's double standards, etc. I would be mortified... guess that's something to keep in mind ladies next time you think you want to have a faux O... how would we feel? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetpea Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 Once you fake the first one you are stuck. Better off being honest about it even though it might be awkward. If you fake it then you are hardly ever satisfied and you carry around a lie in your head. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ryan123 Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 I bet. But it is pretty much common knowledge that women fake orgasms... but when put to the other gender... it's insulting. lol... guess it's double standards, etc. I would be mortified... guess that's something to keep in mind ladies next time you think you want to have a faux O... how would we feel? watch 40 days and 40 nights...that girl was P/O'ed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
winchester3 Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 Help us learn how to please you. I don't think thats something that us men will ever figure out how to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ryan123 Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 oh, trust me. guys can. i had success in my faking. i've only done it once though. Your idea of success and my idea of success differ then. Because if you had to hide the evidence, or lack of in this matter, you didn't fool anyone with the act. It's like OJ simpson...Sure he fooled everyone because the evidence(the glove) didn't fit. But he didn't fool anyone with the act. Everyone knows he did it, he just left "fake" evidence. Which is the same as destroying it. Bad example maybe, but w/e. The girl you faked it with musta been dumb. Who the hell flushes a condom after they're done UNLESS they don't want the lady to see nothing in it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alcide Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 just curious to know how many girls fake their orgasm? or ever have faked? what were the pro's and con's of doing so? and weather there are any guys out there that have faked aswell? tell all!! Yes ive done it so that my partner my partner wont feel bad, and when it hurts too much i pretend as well so he would ease u a little. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 Your idea of success and my idea of success differ then. Because if you had to hide the evidence, or lack of in this matter, you didn't fool anyone with the act. It's like OJ simpson...Sure he fooled everyone because the evidence(the glove) didn't fit. But he didn't fool anyone with the act. Everyone knows he did it, he just left "fake" evidence. Which is the same as destroying it. Bad example maybe, but w/e. The girl you faked it with musta been dumb. Who the hell flushes a condom after they're done UNLESS they don't want the lady to see nothing in it. i flush all condoms. why would i want that mess sitting in my garbage smelling like burnt rubber? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Veroni Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 Man, I did it alot in high school.....not now though. It doesnt do me any good to fake it. I simply redirect when Im not getting it like I like it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KG Posted January 25, 2008 Share Posted January 25, 2008 Have never faked, just said this is gonna take a LOONGGG time. She would reply, OK, do you want to stop? NO! After awhile we agreed I wasn't going to get there, so let's stop, and cuddle. No biggie. And BTW, I don't know if a woman ever faked one with me, I just HOPE they didn't. I don't need a cushion for my ego! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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