Dont like to be alone when i go somewhere

[CustomX]

I was just wondering if anyone else has this problem too? wherever i go i always want to take a friend with me. I dont like going anywhere alone. and when i do i feel scared and lonely.......does anyone know why i always feel like this?

[musicguy]

I sometimes feel that way now, probably because I'm living in a bigger city. It's always good to feel safe and secure esp, when it's a place you are not familiar with.

 

Musicguy

[avman]

Same deal here. Its just not much fun for me to go places alone. I'd rather be with someone. I think its just something extroverts need.

[cobro]

I know what you mean, I don't like to go places by myself either. It's just better having company. If I have to go by myself I will, but I would rather have a friend(s) with me.

[neva_black_n_white]

yeah i can understand that completely, its weird for me that someone thinks there home is like the safest place because for when im alone in my own home i feel so isolated and find it difficult to feel comfortable.

 

i guess thats really weird but i just feel so awkward and usually find myself sitting in one space all the time unless someone else is there.

 

whilst going out i like to have my friends with me but for some reason i dont feel as bad being out alone than being home alone.

weird i guess but thats me. i guess its because im located on a dead end private road so i feel as if anythinhg was to happen theres no where to go.

kel

[The Morrigan]

I must be the oddball here, because I'm generally happier on my own than in company, unless it's something I specifically planned for company on.

 

I love my personal space and thinking space. One of the hardest things for me to get used to when I was married was sharing all my space with another person - I was an only child, and never had roommates, so this was really foreign to me.

 

Don't get me wrong, I love my friends dearly, but ofttimes I enjoy going places, especially places like the bookstore, alone, where I can browse around at my own pace.

 

Hmm, I wonder, any of you grow up with close sibs or in larger families? And any other onlies here who really enjoy being alone?

[CustomX]

With me i just hate being alone.....especially at home..there is noone to talk to or look at and i hate the fact of being by myself. maybe i picked up this habit by my girlfriend because she lives far away and i get to see her every 3 months and whenever she lives i cry alot and have seperation anxity.

[neva_black_n_white]

oh i do love my own personal space its just the aspect of being alone in my home thats all. but personal space is very important to me also. but i know when i want to be on my own, you dont know when your going to feel nervous any anxiety like said before.

kel

[The_Loner_Warrior]

hi everyone personally for me I used to being alone all the time. For me it just been like that for as long I can remember. I think it good to get to be alone to think about what going on your life good or bad and just the choices youve made for yourself.