CustomX Posted November 12, 2003 Share Posted November 12, 2003 I was just wondering if anyone else has this problem too? wherever i go i always want to take a friend with me. I dont like going anywhere alone. and when i do i feel scared and lonely.......does anyone know why i always feel like this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
musicguy Posted November 12, 2003 Share Posted November 12, 2003 I sometimes feel that way now, probably because I'm living in a bigger city. It's always good to feel safe and secure esp, when it's a place you are not familiar with. Musicguy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avman Posted November 12, 2003 Share Posted November 12, 2003 Same deal here. Its just not much fun for me to go places alone. I'd rather be with someone. I think its just something extroverts need. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cobro Posted November 12, 2003 Share Posted November 12, 2003 I know what you mean, I don't like to go places by myself either. It's just better having company. If I have to go by myself I will, but I would rather have a friend(s) with me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neva_black_n_white Posted November 13, 2003 Share Posted November 13, 2003 yeah i can understand that completely, its weird for me that someone thinks there home is like the safest place because for when im alone in my own home i feel so isolated and find it difficult to feel comfortable. i guess thats really weird but i just feel so awkward and usually find myself sitting in one space all the time unless someone else is there. whilst going out i like to have my friends with me but for some reason i dont feel as bad being out alone than being home alone. weird i guess but thats me. i guess its because im located on a dead end private road so i feel as if anythinhg was to happen theres no where to go. kel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Morrigan Posted November 13, 2003 Share Posted November 13, 2003 I must be the oddball here, because I'm generally happier on my own than in company, unless it's something I specifically planned for company on. I love my personal space and thinking space. One of the hardest things for me to get used to when I was married was sharing all my space with another person - I was an only child, and never had roommates, so this was really foreign to me. Don't get me wrong, I love my friends dearly, but ofttimes I enjoy going places, especially places like the bookstore, alone, where I can browse around at my own pace. Hmm, I wonder, any of you grow up with close sibs or in larger families? And any other onlies here who really enjoy being alone? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CustomX Posted November 13, 2003 Author Share Posted November 13, 2003 With me i just hate being alone.....especially at home..there is noone to talk to or look at and i hate the fact of being by myself. maybe i picked up this habit by my girlfriend because she lives far away and i get to see her every 3 months and whenever she lives i cry alot and have seperation anxity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neva_black_n_white Posted November 13, 2003 Share Posted November 13, 2003 oh i do love my own personal space its just the aspect of being alone in my home thats all. but personal space is very important to me also. but i know when i want to be on my own, you dont know when your going to feel nervous any anxiety like said before. kel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Loner_Warrior Posted January 14, 2004 Share Posted January 14, 2004 hi everyone personally for me I used to being alone all the time. For me it just been like that for as long I can remember. I think it good to get to be alone to think about what going on your life good or bad and just the choices youve made for yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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