Should I be worried?

[cf43]

I've known my GF for about 8 or 9 months and we've been going out for the last month or so. Anyways, since the day we've met we've chatted either on the phone or online but I haven't heard from her since Christmas night. I was flying back and I was talking with her at one of the many layover airport places I stopped at, when it was time for my flight I just said gotta go call you tomorrow. I called and there was no answer so I left a message. Every time I've ever left her a voice mail she's called back within a few hours even if it's just to say that she'd have to call back later because she couldn't talk. I called back today and left another message but never a call back. I'm not trying to be possessive or clutchy I'm just a bit worried about her as it just seems out of character for her. I totally trust her and know that she'd never cheat or do anything like that.

 

I've got her dad's phone number but I'm not gonna give him a ring unless I don't hear anything by sometime next week or so.

 

Should I be worried about her?

[Lionel Hutz]

Its natural to worry. If you have not talked to her since Christmas I would call a mutual friend first. Last option would be to text the dad but that is the absolute LAST OPTION!!!!! Think long and hard before texting dad. BTW do you have good relation ship with dad? if not that is not an option.

[Lionel Hutz]

BTW how old are you?

[karvala]

I assume everything was okay between the two of you over Christmas and the last time you spoke to her? In that case, I'd leave it a couple more days if I were you. People get busy at this time of year, and also sick quite often, so I wouldn't worry too much yet. As you say, give it until some time early next week, and then try one more time (on Monday or Tuesday). If you don't get a response within 24hrs of that, then it would be reasonable to phone her dad and ask him what's going on. Before then, it might look a bit paranoid.

[cf43]

We're 20 and weren't fighting or anything like that. I get along good with her dad and they're kinda close. I'd only get in touch with him as an absolute last resort if I don't hear anything by early next week.

 

I didn't mean to sound paranoid it's just that it's not like her.

[ghost69]

are you on a business trip or visiting family or something? some people are very aloof around holiday season.

[rs.dallaire]

I know how you feel right now and it is VERY important that you keep your cool.