gurlygurl17 Posted December 6, 2007 Share Posted December 6, 2007 Hey, so ive been talking to this guy for a bit online (via webcam) and we are both the same age 17. We are both physically attracted to eachother and have said that quite a few times...hes even planning to come visit me soon..cause we both are into eachother. Recently, I noticed that hes been saying "I love you" during our chats... like (taken from our previous chats) : Talk to you tomorrow. I love you! God I love you so much Love you...back in a little while. Love you, bye. I donno...usually when someone says i love u, its a big thing, so i donno...maybe he jsut says that , cause i highly doubt he really "loves me" so yeah i donno...whats ur guys take on this...do guys usually say that? more like a love u as a friend, or..what...any feedback would be cool Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Konfetkette Posted December 6, 2007 Share Posted December 6, 2007 infatuation Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ole21 Posted December 6, 2007 Share Posted December 6, 2007 You simply can't love someone when you've never even met them before. you should ask him if he actually does love you or he just says that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ftheunion Posted December 6, 2007 Share Posted December 6, 2007 I'm sorry, but I think cyber relationships are a joke. Until you start spending time in person. It is in vain. Kinda a dumb way to spend your life. Vision is an important part of human sense data, but we are decieving ourself by doing this kinda stuff. Lets put it this way, Evolution and the pair-bond didn't happen via the internet............. Good luck though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mandyish Posted December 9, 2007 Share Posted December 9, 2007 you know, I think the cyber relationships are very intense...and i think you can def fall in love. Whether it's true love or not it's not clear. But you get to know each other just like you would in a bar or whatever....He is obviously into you. But sometimes I think guys say it wayyyy more easier than chicks... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blizzardblueeyes Posted December 9, 2007 Share Posted December 9, 2007 Yes, I think you could fall in love this way. You get to know someone on the inside first. And by saying I Love You, I believe someone can love someone in their own special way, just not be in love until you actually look into their eyes. Best wishes to you both. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wiser Posted December 9, 2007 Share Posted December 9, 2007 You can "fall in love" with the image you have in your mind of a person on the internet, but it's a false love. Heck, a heterosexual guy could "fall in love" with a guy on the other end and not even know it. You never know who you're talking to. I wouldnt say that cyber relationships are a joke, but they are at best a means to an end, and by themselves, without a physical meeting, they cannot be considered meaningful, and might even be a total scam. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KG Posted December 10, 2007 Share Posted December 10, 2007 Love isn't until you've spent months holding hands, looking into each others eyes, aching from being apart. It can't happen in cyber. My 2 c's. KG Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mbrown8645 Posted December 10, 2007 Share Posted December 10, 2007 hmmm...I think the internet induces you to say I love you more easily. Because writing these words is definitely easier than saying them! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gath Posted December 11, 2007 Share Posted December 11, 2007 While I wouldn't want to say its impossible to love someone you know only through online, I would say its very unlikely and much much more likely to be infatuation. But its still possible. But if two people have such strong feelings, they should at least try to meet to see if there is anything real there. I think you'll discover sometimes that there isn't anything there. And then other times you might find something thats an even far stronger attraction than what you'd been expecting. Be careful though, while its easy to think you know someone because you've been talking to them on the internet for months and months, you still only know the person they let you see. Its terribly simple to be dishonest on the web, and the person you think you're in love with could turn out to be an entirely different person in reality. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aleadragonhawk Posted December 27, 2007 Share Posted December 27, 2007 Some people put more meaning into "I love you" than others do. The only way you'll know what he means by it is by asking him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
easterisland Posted January 7, 2008 Share Posted January 7, 2008 I'm sorry, but I think cyber relationships are a joke. Until you start spending time in person. It is in vain. Kinda a dumb way to spend your life. Vision is an important part of human sense data, but we are decieving ourself by doing this kinda stuff. Lets put it this way, Evolution and the pair-bond didn't happen via the internet............. Good luck though. But the internet is successfully bringing people together, and if that results in offspring then cyberspace will have a direct impact on evolution and pair-bonding. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
schueysgirl Posted January 7, 2008 Share Posted January 7, 2008 I agree that on the internet you can form very VERY close bonds with somoene and it is an excellent way of getting to know people. However people can HIDe behind their computer screens and keyboard and be someone there not and it is not until you actually meet and spend proper time together and experience the ups and downs of a proper face to face relationship that anyone will know how they truly feel. If a guy I had never met before told me he loved me i would be freaked out and also would worry about him a lot. Love is not to be taken lightly and it seems to me like either he is just being immature and using that to get whatever he wants, or he actually does think he loves you after only speaking online. Both of these things are a concern and you need to speak to him honestly and openly. Be very wary and careful when you do meet up, make sure people know where u are and also have a friend or someone close by if you can... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midnightrambler Posted January 12, 2008 Share Posted January 12, 2008 I'm sorry, but I think cyber relationships are a joke. Until you start spending time in person. It is in vain. Kinda a dumb way to spend your life. Vision is an important part of human sense data, but we are decieving ourself by doing this kinda stuff. Lets put it this way, Evolution and the pair-bond didn't happen via the internet............. Good luck though. keen observation Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midnightrambler Posted January 12, 2008 Share Posted January 12, 2008 Love isn't until you've spent months holding hands, looking into each others eyes, aching from being apart. It can't happen in cyber. My 2 c's. KG love is when you take care of them when they vomit when sick Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Altruist Posted January 13, 2008 Share Posted January 13, 2008 He's only 17 and still learning the meaning of love. The rush of hormones at that age can cause these lovey-dovey reactions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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