KG Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 I just joined a dating site..all the responses I get are from BBW. I'm a skinny guy, and just wonder what's the attraction? or is it just the age/dating thing? Nothing against BBW, but put in my profile not over 160 lbs, still get LARGE women asking me Q's and I don't want to put them off...but whaT? I can't dance around this! But want to be polite. HELP! TIA KG Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HappyAsALark Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 Wow this post made me laugh super hard. Good luck with that KG. I would just ignore their responses. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fnlyfrei Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 I just joined a dating site..all the responses I get are from BBW. I'm a skinny guy, and just wonder what's the attraction? or is it just the age/dating thing? Nothing against BBW, but put in my profile not over 160 lbs, still get LARGE women asking me Q's and I don't want to put them off...but whaT? I can't dance around this! But want to be polite. HELP! TIA KG You are probably a cutie and BBW still have desires too ya know ! Just politely say you aren't interested if you aren't. That's what dating sites are for...you don't HAVE to make them all happy ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jengh Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 im obviously retarded, but what does BBW stand for?...=\ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Portage Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 ^ LMAO, same here Big, Beautiful women?? my guess?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jengh Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 ^^something along those lines was my guess.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
breath.o.fresh.air Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 i was wondering the same thing cairo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HappyAsALark Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 ^I took it as meaning big black woman..haha but i have a feeling i am really wrong.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jengh Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 ^I took it as meaning big black woman..haha but i have a feeling i am really wrong.. thats exactly whati thought, but i didnt want to be politically incorrect... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
renaissancewoman101 Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 ILMBC, thanks for asking that question. I had no idea what BBW meant. I see it on personal ads a lot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HappyAsALark Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 thats exactly whati thought, but i didnt want to be politically incorrect... Leave that up to me! hahaha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Portage Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 So KGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG, what the hell is it???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carriebradshawny Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 BBW = Big Beautiful Women OLG you had it correct Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KG Posted November 27, 2007 Author Share Posted November 27, 2007 C'mon guys...Big beautiful Women! KG Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jengh Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 lol...thank youuuu Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 well.... i was reading some statistic that 66% of the american population is overweight, and 30% is obese. if those numbers are for real, then that probably explains why so many bbws are hitting on you - maybe that is what the majority demographic is becoming. especially if you are living in a state with high obesity rates. link removed has a "fit nation" map showing obesity rates per state. link removed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zackinlaw Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 BBW means Big Beautiful Women of any race. Anything from pleasingly plump (which may include girls within your 160 pound range) to the truly obese. And while I agree that responses from a dating site should respect your preferences, I would take it as a compliment to your attractiveness and be gentle. BBWs are just people too with normal attractions. Be big enough (pun intended) to respect her feelings while letting her down. Zack. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted November 27, 2007 Share Posted November 27, 2007 Wow this post made me laugh super hard. Good luck with that KG. I would just ignore their responses. yeah, when i did online dating, i just wouldn't reply to guys who didn't really fit what i was looking for. personally, i'd rather hear nothing and assume they met someone else rather than, 'thanks but no thanks.' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
just M.E. Posted December 4, 2007 Share Posted December 4, 2007 there is a site, I think it is fitness singles or something like that, no chubbies there that's what I didn't like about eHarmony, you can't specify body type, I am PFP , you can guess that (Pretty _______ Picky) I like 'em to be roughly my height, weigh about the same, preferably a least a little more and if they weigh more they should be taller ... I can't get around the overweight thing either. Just send them a message saying you a taking a break from dating if you don't want to hurt their feelings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
just M.E. Posted December 4, 2007 Share Posted December 4, 2007 Colorado has the nations lowest obesity rate ... about 17% Move? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fritz The Cat Posted December 12, 2007 Share Posted December 12, 2007 I have the same problem and also find that women try their best to hide their true selves. For example, I recently met one in person who turned out to be about 4 times the size that her pic made her appear to be. Either the pic was not of her (hard to tell since it was low rez) or it was unacceptably old. Since then, I've made it a point to state my height and weight up front and if she doesn't do the same, I don't waste my time. It's not that i have anything against over weight women, it's just that they aren't my type. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted December 12, 2007 Share Posted December 12, 2007 I have the same problem and also find that women try their best to hide their true selves. For example, I recently met one in person who turned out to be about 4 times the size that her pic made her appear to be. Either the pic was not of her (hard to tell since it was low rez) or it was unacceptably old. Since then, I've made it a point to state my height and weight up front and if she doesn't do the same, I don't waste my time. It's not that i have anything against over weight women, it's just that they aren't my type. what do you mean, if she doesn't have her weight in her profile? or if she doesn't tell you when you ask? I weigh more than I look (well, at least according to bouncers looking at my ID ) so I'd be afraid putting down that number would 'scare' away men who think i am overweight.... i notice a lot of people don't know what the proper weight is for a particular height, which is why i wouldn't want to put my weight down. i'd rather just state my body type. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
just M.E. Posted December 12, 2007 Share Posted December 12, 2007 annie, I also am a "heavy weight" compared to my actual size. I guess my lifestyle has kept my muscle content higher than most, I weigh 135 and am 5' 6"+ but wear a size 4 or a small, but I do have shoulders, both in the physical and metaphorical And there are plenty of 115 lb featherweights with muffin tops and back fat!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tommy_bud Posted December 13, 2007 Share Posted December 13, 2007 What pray is a muffin top??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted December 13, 2007 Share Posted December 13, 2007 What pray is a muffin top??? when a woman wears jeans that are too tight for her, and her tummy "spills" over the tops of her jeans. Imagine a muffin in a wrapper and how the top spills over. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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