ftheunion Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 Was wondering how having sex out in nature is compared to normal. I decided this is the way I wanna first experience it/loose my virginity. The warm afternoon air and smells. maybe a fly or two on her butt. That seems like it would be really hot sex. But maybe that is mundane. Seems like it is close to animal instinct so it would be extra enjoyable. Dunno. What are other thoughts/experience on this? Link to comment
Angel_baby Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 My husband took me in the woods once, it was very nice. Notes to keep in mind though... You should start with something cute like a picnic Bring a thick blanket or two. The ground can hurt if you don't have enough padding. Be sure it is a nice day with no chance of rain Bring something for "cleanup" Bug spray!! Link to comment
ComputerGuy Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 For the love of god avoid the beach...or anywhere with sand for that matter. Trust me from personal experience you will regret it if you introduce sand. Link to comment
Clementine orange Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 For the love of god avoid the beach...or anywhere with sand for that matter. Trust me from personal experience you will regret it if you introduce sand. I whole heartedly agree with this statement. Sand is both abrasive and invasive. Link to comment
niczeegs Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 Hmmm - personally, maybe it's not such a great idea to have sex for the first time outside, just because it's....awkward.... My fiance and I had sex in the golf course, and had to stop cause some lady was walking her dog... And then this one time, we did it in a cemetery on a Sunday afternoon (don't judge...LOL!) and that was perfect, but it was spur of the moment and a blanket would have been nice... So keep it mind that if you're there, then someone else is probably walking around as well.... Link to comment
Mavh25 Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 Awwww I did it on a cricket pitch once, that was erm.. interesting. Just as we left the players started coming out LOL I'd agree, first time maybe best to stay indoors! Link to comment
itsallgrand Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 LOL niczeegs. Good point about the voyeur aspect that can come to play. "Oh god, is that somebody coming? I swear I heard footsteps!!" For a first time, I suggest a nice warm bed with everything you could possibly need or want nearby. You've got lots of time for the adventurous stuff yet. Link to comment
Jeen Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 Take the indoors. Love nature but there is always something distracting or annoying one. And you don't want your first to be a hit and run. Use sometime your first will only be once. Link to comment
princess_summer_blue84 Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 indoors all the way! Needs a warm bed with rose petals on it and soft romantic music playing mmmmmmm hmmmmmmm! Sounds like the perfect setting to me. Oh did I mention a hot tub filled up with a bubble bath? Link to comment
Cimmie Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 I used to get really turned on by being with a man I loved in a beautiful place. I think being 'in nature' taps into something primal in us. Nothing sexier than having congress in the great outdoors. Link to comment
sammybug83 Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 Sex outdoors is amazing and such a thrill. I wouldnt recommend it for first timers though. Get the basics down in the bed... and then move outside. You will thank me later! Link to comment
RayKay Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 I definitely would not recommend it for the first time as it can be a bit awkward and some women aren't too much into the "daylight exposure". Once you get the hang of it though the outdoors stuff can be fun, I like stopping in the middle of a mountain bike ride or something for a quickie - just keeo in mind the sand, pine needles, tree bark (hurts more than carpet burn!), poison ivy, mosquitos and wasp nests Link to comment
wayworndude Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 Mud is also a problem, this time a year the ground's usually wet and there are fallen leaves everywhere, it can get all over you and if you're not careful to fully wipe yourself off afterwards it can be awkward if you don't do your own washing and someone asks you why you've mud on the inside of your clothes... Link to comment
ftheunion Posted November 19, 2007 Author Share Posted November 19, 2007 Thanks for input, but the first time I would like to be outside. I agree, being interrupted is dumb. I would think a long time as to the place. I guess some dirt or on top of a bolder wouldn't be so bad. but grass is preferable then huh? I'm not worried about her getting dirty down there, unless it was mud or sand. Anyway, cavemen did it outdoors all the time, and I bet the first time too. I wonder what it was like for a cave virgin. That is why decided on outdoors. I suppose she could be skeptic about it, but I would talk it through with her, or not push it much if spuratic, so it would just be cuddling, meaning I would let her come half way to engage in the act. Link to comment
d24 Posted November 19, 2007 Share Posted November 19, 2007 i've had sex on a mountain (altitude was different and it was cold, but great!), in the woods (yeah, that was good, but tree stumps can hurt so look before you sit!), in a horse's barn/stable (animals distracted me, it stank and i didnt enjoy it) and on the beach (as many people say - don't do it). I've also had HJs/BJs in the car (dont cum if you're driving!), in movie theatres (the back row isn't always the best place to go), and at the end of a pier (was fantastic), etc... I love it outdoors but my current gf is very nervous/self-conscious - so I don't force it. I'd definitely want to take my time INSIDE for the first time - but when you want to experiment beyond your bedroom/house/pubs/clubs/cinemas/toilets the thrill of being out in the openair can be great. But like someone said - be aware that if you're there, chances are someone else could come too. And I hear that's called dogging... but that's for another thread rofl Link to comment
anggrace Posted November 19, 2007 Share Posted November 19, 2007 I personally think the outdoors is great. But unless your girl doesn't at all mind getting dirty (in the literal sense), the indoors might be better for you. Especially for the first time as others have mentioned. One think I haven't tried yet is on some nice grass during the rain. Messy, yes. And the smell would be nice too. Link to comment
WaterIsLife Posted November 19, 2007 Share Posted November 19, 2007 ^^^ That sounds like a nice idea! I did something sort of like that, not completely in the grass though and it wasn't raining. It was in a kiddie pool in my back yard. As you can imagine, one of those kiddie pools doesn't hold two people too well! So there was some grass-involvement there! Link to comment
Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll Posted November 19, 2007 Share Posted November 19, 2007 no. i have allergic reactions to grass and i hate bugs Link to comment
ftheunion Posted November 20, 2007 Author Share Posted November 20, 2007 Thanks all. I don't get why it is better to be indoors on the first time. I spend so much time alone in my room as it is. I don't wanna lose my virginity inside just because everyone else says so. No big deal, I've been single now for 5 years. But I still wish to do this for the first experience. Anyway, maybe I need more details why. The interruption thing I get, but outside is comfortable. Indoors is artificial comfort, and nature is cool. I drink organic milk and use Tom's of Maine natural hygene products. I don't wanna be a fake mother f***er or a yankee. Link to comment
NightLily Posted April 4, 2009 Share Posted April 4, 2009 Thanks all. I don't get why it is better to be indoors on the first time. I spend so much time alone in my room as it is. I don't wanna lose my virginity inside just because everyone else says so. No big deal, I've been single now for 5 years. But I still wish to do this for the first experience. Anyway, maybe I need more details why. The interruption thing I get, but outside is comfortable. Indoors is artificial comfort, and nature is cool. I drink organic milk and use Tom's of Maine natural hygene products. I don't wanna be a fake mother f***er or a yankee. If you insist on losing it outside, then be a gentleman: let the girl be on top. Unless you are on a well maintained yard the ground will poke you in all weird ways you didn't know it could. In the woods, she'll keep getting jabbed by sticks. Plus, that way you can watch the sun coming through her hair ..the muddy part isn't bad either. Link to comment
Lamour detruit Posted April 4, 2009 Share Posted April 4, 2009 I wouldn't suggest it for the first time,but it is definitely amazing. There is nothing like having sex in the woods,such as a big tree for her to lean against with the sound of the animals around us along with our primal sounds with them...and especially my favorite of having her ride you on the grass at night,with the full moon up high..knowing you get to not only have sex under the moonlight..but also watch the way the sun lights up her flesh in the morning again. Link to comment
NightLily Posted April 4, 2009 Share Posted April 4, 2009 I wouldn't suggest it for the first time,but it is definitely amazing. There is nothing like having sex in the woods,such as a big tree for her to lean against with the sound of the animals around us along with our primal sounds with them...and especially my favorite of having her ride you on the grass at night,with the full moon up high..knowing you get to not only have sex under the moonlight..but also watch the way the sun lights up her flesh in the morning again. umm.... .. *melts* Link to comment
Seymore Posted April 4, 2009 Share Posted April 4, 2009 You know, everyone has that "sex on the beach" fantasy, but next to the woods, a farm has always been my fantasy. Up against a tree, in a field of grain, the breeze brushing against our bodies. Kind of the "Nobody knows, but everyone COULD" thing... Link to comment
waveseer Posted April 4, 2009 Share Posted April 4, 2009 A tent, an air matress, and a couple of sleeping bags are a really nice happy medium between indoors and outdoors. Link to comment
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