gurlygurl17 Posted September 16, 2007 Share Posted September 16, 2007 when you were younger and going through the hormone stage (15-18) and if you hit on a girl cause you wanted a sexual favor or sex, did you just try to get it from anyone that you could....or did she have to be at least attractive to you...ive asked two guys i know and both gave me different answers...one saying that for oral she didnt have to look hot, but for sex she did..plz be honest! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll Posted September 16, 2007 Share Posted September 16, 2007 well i was shy but when i mustard up some courage it was beacuse i found her attractive from 12-17 all i wanted was a nice pair of boobies and a nice butt personality was optional........... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Godless_Heathen Posted September 16, 2007 Share Posted September 16, 2007 This varies from guy to guy. When I was in high school, a friend who lived accross the street slept with a girl he didn't find the least bit attractive. What a bottomless pit that relationship was. Unfortunately she ended up pregnant and they got married. Personally, I would have needed to be not only attracted, but to have a crush at least. I'm just wired that way. I never got anything out of porn videos, I preferred sex scenes in good movies, because I needed to like the girls I was watching. I didn't have to know them that well, mind you, but I had to at least have the illusion. I'm sure there's a huge range of reactions in between. Is this about not feeling attractive or something? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gurlygurl17 Posted September 16, 2007 Author Share Posted September 16, 2007 no i dont feel that attractive..and this guy is flirting with me so i donno if he just wants to get some, or is considering a real relationship...i donno..its confusing..thanks for ur answer though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Godless_Heathen Posted September 16, 2007 Share Posted September 16, 2007 Well, at least he's just flirting with you. I had this vision that he'd outright asked you for sex, given how you phrased the question, which is just not very respectful. If it's just the usual high school thing, you're better of thinking about whether you find him interesting, rather than worrying about what he thinks of you. Would you have this guy as a friend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gurlygurl17 Posted September 16, 2007 Author Share Posted September 16, 2007 yeah hes pretty supportive and very sweet but i dont know if hes just acting that way....he hasnt asked for sex but hes said things like "you know u wanna suck my ___" which is a bit disrespectful...but..i donno Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Godless_Heathen Posted September 16, 2007 Share Posted September 16, 2007 Yeah, that's not the least bit respectful. I wasn't really distinguishing between oral sex and intercourse, if he's bluntly demanding it, ugh. I know learning about this stuff is rough, but run away. Far away. At the very least wait for a guy who waits until you're clearly in a relationship, dating, and phrases it as a question, not a demand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gurlygurl17 Posted September 16, 2007 Author Share Posted September 16, 2007 ok, thnx for the advice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 i still picked out girls i found attractive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beauty21 Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 "you know u wanna suck my ___"/QUOTE] Yes, Gurly, that is very disrespectful, and had he said that to me, I would have let him pull it right on out, then burn it with my cigarette. If a guy talk to you like that, tell him to get lost. He's only out for the worst. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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