To be friends or not to be? (Just a survey)

[setsuko1981]

(Guys/Gals):

 

Let's say you like or have a crush on your friend, you have no clue if she likes you back.

 

Would you be willing to sacrifice the friendship and tell your feelings to your friend (and hope for the best)?

 

Which one do you prefer?

 

Friends first before dating or just skip the "friends first"?

[Shyguy24]

Well I would want to know the person, and be friends and take it from there , I don’t think you can have a relationship if you don’t know the person properly, it also depends on the other person. Some people are easier to get along with then others

[DREAM]

Well I would say if they such a good mates then don't say anything cos friend ship can m messed up,

 

But if this is a situation when something really has to be said then I would say. Become friends first cos you may realize you don't like the person in that way. But just as friends,

 

Or you could find out much more about the person like they like someone else at least you wont look like a jackass,.

[Happy_Go_Lucky_Heb]

I don't see why not, especially if ur really good friends, sure u can screw up the friendship 4 a while, but since u's hav such a good friendship, it'll all be ok in the end.

 

I personally went down the same road a couple of times, resulting in different circumstances but in the end its all been good. The relationship i'm currently in was kinda the same, i dunno the outcome of it coz we're still 2getha...

 

I'm the sorta person who believes in "we only live once, make the most of it", i don't worry bout the risks, i take the challenge and hey..how u suppose 2 kno who's supposed 2 b the one if u neva give it a go?

 

Happy Heb

[carbine]

i think you should go for it , it would ruin your friendship if you 2 let it

i had a g/f and we didnt quite work out we sorta stopped talking for about a month and now we are closer then we have ever been

 

hope i helped a lil

[Cid]

I would have to say I would go for it. But that is just me speeking