chedchase Posted September 24, 2003 Share Posted September 24, 2003 Here's the cliff notes of my situation. My girlfriend was about to leave for med school, I hit the panic button and broke up with her and now she's been gone for eight weeks! I wrote and sent a long letter telling her that I love her and distance (2,000 miles away) was not going to last forever - if this is what we both wanted. I told her I made a mistake and I loved her. I told her that I have realized a lot about my feelings and how much she means to me now that she isn't here and I have can put things in perspective (graduating in december from college also puts things in perspective)....so, we talked about that letter recently and she seemed cautious that this was something I really wanted or if it was a matter of just being lonely. I explained to her it wasn't - i didn't need anyone in my life to make me happy, but I wanted her. Anyway, the question: I sent her flowers once in a while and also send her a package of home made cookies or candy and other stuff she likes. I just recently sent her a package of cookies that I made all by myself! I usually like to mix it up between flowers and packages...a long with notes telling her that I miss her and think about her all the time. I just recently sent her cookies...she has a tough week with tests this weekend and I usually like to send her flowers on tough weeks...but would that be too much? I just sent the package that she got this week...would it be too early to send her flowers on friday? I don't want to ruin the element of surprise, but at the same time I want her to know that I am thinking about her and miss her like crazy. Do I send the flowers? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chedchase Posted September 24, 2003 Author Share Posted September 24, 2003 if you want more knowledge of the situation as well as to read the letter, check it out here: link removed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shari186 Posted September 26, 2003 Share Posted September 26, 2003 There is never too much sending of flowers, unless you are a stalker, which you are not. If a boyfriend sends me flowers every day, which he never does, I would glady take them and be very happy. You can never do too much of the good stuff if you guys are a couple. Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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