Broken_Doll_ParTs Posted June 7, 2007 Author Share Posted June 7, 2007 LOL Guys, thanks for the advice, it was good to hear reasons for and agaisnt. You guys rock. I know I need to see a doctor about it, but I just thought I could get advice here first. Thanks heaps people Keep it peaceful peeps! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hosswhispra Posted June 7, 2007 Share Posted June 7, 2007 I lost my 'virginity' to a speculum! I have had a few pap smears in my life and I am a virgin, too. The reason I went to be examined was because I had some bleeding in the middle of my cycle (turned out to be normal, I bleed a little bit when I ovulate). The first one was very painful for me (I had forewarned the OB/GYN (a female, too!) that I was a virgin) but it hurt so much that I was in tears. I guess that was my hymen ripping or breaking/my pc muscles tightening up because I felt very vulnerable on the table with my feet in the stirrup things. It was what I call a "mechanical rape" with a speculum! With the second one a few years later, I told the examiner (different OB/GYN) that I was a virgin and that I had had a bad initial experience. I asked the examiner to use the smallest speculum possible and I was fine. To this day (because of my first experience) I am afraid to go to the gynecologist (but I would go if I had to). I would rather visit the dentist though! Just make sure you tell them you're a virgin and that you haven't been to the OB/GYN yet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krystal_Ivy Posted June 7, 2007 Share Posted June 7, 2007 my doc said No. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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