Sentohottie

Does your husband love you? If you can honestly say yes, then try to let it go. Only pursue it if you think it happens again. If it DID happen, then it will more than likely occur again. If not, then you won't see anything come of it. Just take a deep breath, and don't stress out. You will make it through no matter what.

I once read a great quote that I think applies totally. I don't remember it word for word, but I remember the point. Basically, in a couple hundred years, The United States will be considered the country that fell because of its political correctness. I mean, that is totally why these people think they can get away with suing over the dumbest things. They are taking advantage of the fact that everything has to be politically correct. Coffee has to say its hot or people will sue. What is this world coming to?!!

Tell her that she looks REALLY good one day...out of the blue. If she asks why...just say "I don't know...there is just something about you" with a sly, but cute grin on your face. Don't be afraid to tell her this right after giving her a kiss...make sure she is really close to you. When I had this issue, my biggest fear is that I would look really bad up close. If you can hold her really close, look her in the eyes and say she looks good, you're headed in the right direction.

May I suggest running stairs. I know its silly, but you don't have to go to a gym, and it definitely tones the thighs and backside. Not to mention, it will totally give you an AWESOME cardiovascular work out....better than just running. I know one post said not to eat after nine, but if you want it to be more effective, don't eat after 7. Make dinner as light as possible as well. For your waist....try the following excercise. Put your hands above your head and clamp them together (not with an actual clamp of course) and keep your arms as straight as possible. Lean as far as you can to the right....and then to the left. Repeat this as many times as you can. The next day, your sides will hurt like crazy, but after a few days, you will see some improvement, and the pain will go away. If you feel that its not doing anything, try holding a can of vegetables over your head. Remember to keep your arms straight and together.