I hear on this one. I made it very clear as well I am not open to friendship and the occasional call to "touch base" as she puts it. Yeah having LC just is not healthy, maybe for a few weeks or so, but it also made me miserable, because every time I thought we were making some strides towards reconciling she would take a step back. So stay strong this time around and do not respond to her crap. If she has something important to say, like let's get together for lunch or I really want things to work between us, then I would say yes, but be very guarded.