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  1. EvaGina
    I dont know if we should give this becky flak for blanking him. IF he was putting her on a pedelstal, then she was probably a bit freaked... she probably didnt mean to be nasty, but just didnt know what to do and didnt want to encourage him.
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    2 months of dating before "official" would be too long for me. I know within the first date if I could be with someone or not (to a certian point, anyway, any crazy tends to come out later) so I would be put off if someone took that long to decide about me.
  3. EvaGina
    free councellors are available normally, it just takes a bit to find them. Check the back of your local paper. I say call him on it. "every few weeks you seem to assume we are back together. Please realise that time wont solve this, I am not going to forget that we have broken up. If you keep acting like this I will have no choice but to withdraw my offer of friendship as well." I feel for you, and I respect your desicion to not stay with him just to save his feelings
  4. EvaGina
    Call a councellor I would say you are feeling guilt more than anything... depressed about your actions and not controlling your emotions.
  5. EvaGina
    May I ask what the qualities you look for in a husband are? Obviously smarts/humour etc, but do you have anything more specific? like... I dno... a 5 year plan or anything?
  6. EvaGina
    1) he asked me to be his gf (I told him I was moving to his city) I said "we'll see" and he just considered me his woman from then... we had only been together physically a week or so 2) it depends, I normally HOPE it will be happy forever, but I know it wont be. THIS time, however, I have every confidence it will last the distance 3) I loved him still from when I was 15. I hadnt seen him in years, so its strange. I love him more now however. I know straight away if I have the potential to fall for someone or not... 4) I am with him because we have HUGE amounts of fun together! I wouldnt be ok if we broke up, but unless he did somthing truly horrible to me, I wouldnt be bitter, I would still regard the relationship as successful. 5) Im not sure about that, I think perhaps we just voice it more.
  7. EvaGina
    My bf lives close to me and I still get morose when I dont see him He doesnt get that bad, I know he misses me... but its not the same
  8. EvaGina
    sorry sweetheart, I didnt want to put you on the spot, you know how proud I am of you
  9. EvaGina
    You can sustain an alcohol addiction on ONE drink a day. if you NEED that drink, then its an addiction. this post is a CLASSIC example of how a horrid drug like alcohol has been so normalised by society that we have been conditioned to deem it harmless. If he is out getting smashed every night, then there is a problem.
  10. EvaGina
    normally I would agree with you... but my bf has this rockstar thing going on... and an amazing body... I definitely think it would suit him.
  11. EvaGina
    That makes perfect sense Its sort of the male parralel of girls whos fathers were abscent, sleeping around
  12. EvaGina
    -bows- thank you
  13. EvaGina
    either that or she was unsure about the reactions she would get and used such wording to put herself down in a joking kind of way... That would tie in with the general feel of the email itself. "Excusing" the behaviour by using a bit of self-depreciating humour. People who are unsure often tend to paint themselves in a bit of an apologetic light.
  14. EvaGina
    This goes for me too... always a shoulder and everything.
  15. EvaGina
    I didnt used to think of it as rape either. its such a messy concept
  16. EvaGina
    sounds very familiar I got that... I just kind of went quiet... I can hardly remember it. but the things I do remember make me sick.
  17. EvaGina
    I know... even things like my high school teacher pushing himself against me in class... it wasnt so bad for me... but I have no idea what he might have done to others... EDIT: I watch movies... and they are pretty... wrong... I think I scared my ex a bit with what I liked to watch
  18. EvaGina
    It makes sense to me too... in a twisted sort of way. I cant imagine how hard it must be for you
  19. EvaGina
    Im not sure I know that until Macca, I COUDLNT orgasm without picturing myself in a horrible circumstance. I was the first to admit that I liked to be held down and/or in pain... but now that I dont need that kind of thing, I feel sort of sick thinking about what I fantasised about. I still need that kind of fantasy if I am alone and ot be honest, my taste is porn in kind of sick
  20. EvaGina
    and at the time its just "well, its just one more, isnt it?" I never realised how badly I would regret just giving in like that.
  21. EvaGina
    thyroxine... I am completely lost for words. Im glad you see a lighter side to it (with being a stronger person) and that you are doing something about it. Did your mother ever say anything about it after the fact? Jen: never reported it... feel horrible about it too, once I find out what else goes on with these guys.
  22. EvaGina
    I want my bf to get his navel pierced.. no idea why...
  23. EvaGina
    I know what you mean if I wasnt to count them, do I count the men I had sex with just beucase they pressured me into it? The men I had sex with just so they would stop touching me and I could go to sleep? I wouldnt know where to stop... I would practically be a virgin again!! ](*,)
  24. EvaGina
    I read a story about a guy here who has just been jailed for the abuse of FIFTEEN boys between the ages of 3 and 15... the things these kids went thorugh... I would give him the chair if possible.
  25. EvaGina
    True... I think it would be a lot easier if it was someone I didnt know... I wouldnt have been so confused
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