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  1. CarnelianButterfly
    A man being in a room with naked women has no sexual connotation? You make it all an issue of trust, but why should a woman trust a man with many women when he won't even give her the trust with one man. So what if there is a past, if he expects trust then he should give trust. You can't ask for something you yourself would not give.
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    Having trouble passing in a channal or sound?
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    So a guy should be allowed to hang out with a room full of naked women and she HAS to trust him. But a woman hangs out with one other guy (who’s most likely fully clothed) and you have to take a stand against that. Can we say Double Standard!
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    Really, when I look at them I'm revolted.... Whose your source, where are they published, what credentials do they have, what was the sample size, what was the sample diversity, what's the distribution, how do you quantify an act as being emotional or logical, how do you separate the total reasoning and causality of an action, what does most mean? Answer those questions, site your sources, and then I might take your fact seriously, until then; it’s not a fact, its speculation.
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    He's in charge of it? What is this the 1950's?
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    Slap her butt and ask her if she's got a cute friend that would like to join you.
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    AGREED!!! Birth control can do some wicked nasty things with a womans mood. I had to switch my dosage because it was so up and down. You're going to need to be patient and be supportive. Sometimes its really hard to take "jokes" from someone who is your support structure, its more personal and can feel a lot more directed.
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    Not to mention the booby whip lash you get
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    I've know a few women that get them totally removed for mastectomies and want no reconstruction. One in particular is a seamstress, so clothing is easy to come by, but she is very happy not to have them. They really do effect movement and the balance. Mine are in the way and with age I can only see them being more so.
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    But as you get older the risk of breast cancer is greater and implants make it much much harder to read mammograms. The complications of the surgery are pretty nasty too, I frankly don't want to worry if my nipples will ever regain feeling or if I'll get an infection that eats a hole in my chest.
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    I don't understand the women that buy the water balloons or let someone talk them into getting them. Its just laughable to me.
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    I think like all aspects of a relationship; communication can improve even the worst situation. You're lover isn't psychic, you have to tell them, express yourself and then listen to them express themselves. Every person will have different likes and dislikes, learning those is part of the fun.
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    These are contradictory. You can't say both. You didn't give her space, until she told you to back off. You went to her place of business with a shady reason for being in the area. You call, email and send her things even after she's said "give me space". That isn't giving them space. Nor is this. If she wants to talk to you it should be her to initiate, not you. You contact her and you are violating her space, her choice, and are not listening to a thing she has asked you.
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    GQ guys look like paper dolls to me. They get such and such suit with tie and shirt, but no soul. Power jobs mean no life beyond the working world. You want to make loads of money, you have to spend loads of time. I'd rather have hours and hours of time alone with my monetarily deficient lover.
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    You've said in the past that her answers weren't definite and that you needed her to say "never again". She's said it, but you still cling, let go. Leave her alone. She has made her feelings know, you are not wanted in her life, at all. Any contact is disrespecting her choice, ANY, one email, phone call, letter, whatever. She has said she wants nothing of you. If you don't leave her alone, she has every right to have you kept away by police and court orders.
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    Luke, there are a lot of people in this world that are NOT driven by sex. Their sole purpose in life is not to screw every thing in sight. And you're little ladder stuff has no consideration for character. And who wrote this? A man? And how does a man have any clue as to what women think. If you think people are pie charts, you have a lot to learn. Every person doesn't fit into nice neat little boxes with perfect little borders. You can't quantify human emotion, any one who thinks that they can numerically estimate the feelings and degrees, and have it applicable to every one, is completely deluded. The world doesn't work that way, attraction isn't a percentage, how does it add up? What's the units of measure? How is it not just a subjective assignation? My boyfriend-no job, no huge store of money. He has personality, wit, intelligence, consideration, character, values, and creativity. He doesn't pull the "alpha male" crapola, he's genuine and what you say is weak, isn’t, its called human. Being true to yourself isn’t weak, it isn’t “beta”, its more fulfilling of a life. You don’t live on pretext and some trumped up play acting role of a person. You’re so called alpha males are sad little boys that thump their chest and hope someone notices.
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    I know my Mom's particular about her stuff and can hoard things, but I think it goes back to the fact that she was very poor growing up and throwing stuff out was throwing money out.
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    I don't know, I think it depends on the girl. I personally love driving and usually do for anything I do with friends. But I know some women rate a guy on his car, so they would not find you're situation attractive. Are there any alternatives to car travel? Bus, train, etc? Motorcycles are a good cheap alternative and it can be even more attractive for dating situations.
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    Talking on the phone and coming face to face with someone are two very different experiences. You have a degree of separation on the phone, you're safe and in your own space, the only part of the other person with you is their voice. Emotionally it can be trying, but there isn't going to be the physical discomfort of sharing physical space with a person. A phone conversation has only words and intonations, you don't see the body language and have direct eye contact. The phone probably felt safe for her since she knew you couldn't touch her, but put you in the same room and it brings a whole new level of fear.
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    So you support the exploitation of another’s feelings for the purpose of sex?
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    I suppose not thinking is how I got my degree in engineering. Right now I'm thinking there are a lot of men that are trying to make it seem like their feelings getting hurt is due to evil women and their impossible ways. I can tell you exactly how I feel about every man I know, I don't think it's of interest to go thru the whole list but the guys that will never make it past friend... Guy 1 I like his mind and he's fun to be around most of the time; however he is immature and has no sense of when things have been taken too far. He is an adult, but has the functionality of a teenage boy. [*]Guy 2: Sweet, different, lots of common interests, he is however small minded and has made comments that I found to be very much in conflict with things I hold important. [*]Guy 3: Charming, sweet, easy conversations about every thing, but he drinks WAY too much. [*]Guy 4: Likes different activities I like, flirty, above avg intelligence, but he has no creativity, I'm an artist. Things not on my list: money or looks. I could care less about either. I don't need any one else's money, I'm perfectly capable of supporting myself. And looks, they are fleeting, he maybe cute today, but what will there be if he has an accident tomorrow and is disfigured.
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    You know I see a lot of blame being placed on the woman for the rejected feelings men that are friend zoned get. You think blaming her will make you more appealing? And why is it so hard to accept that someone does not want you? The world doesn't revolve around one person; they are not the only thing that is important. You're analogy mentions that the man who "gets the job" is an alcoholic or whatever; do you really feel that is valid?
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    Yep, and he acted like he wanted to date, then acted like I was only a friend. Then I acted like he didn't exist and moved on to other guys.
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    The quality of the person the virgin is comes to questions before the virginity itself. I wouldn't sleep with any bloke, newbie or not. I would find it increadiably unusual, but also very alluring and interesting. Here is a chance to be someones first time, I'd make it fun for them, answer questions and make sure they felt comfortable.
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