Thanks for your advice and opinions. I have had my doubts that he is just saying that he doesn’t find the women attractive to save my feelings. Although, if I’m honest it’s just making it worse as I feel that he is insulting my intelligence. He is adamant that he didn’t watch porn for arousal and only to look at the act (certain position) to trigger a memory. Apparently it helped him to remember the sounds and feeling easier by watching a couple in the same position. He said that as he is circumcised and masturbating without lubricant can be painful, he tries to think about the memory and feeling of actual sex as that is what will get him to orgasm quicker than relying on just the video. I kind of understand that reasoning but am really struggling to believe that he can watch naked women and not find them arousing or attractive, even if it is a secondary part of his thinking during masturbation. Do all men find the women in these videos attractive or can it be just a means to an end by looking at the act?