Hi everyone, thank you in advance for reading. And sorry this is kind of long, I'm still processing things and I'm rambling a bit. A few nights ago my friends and I were all hanging out at one of their apartments. I drove one of my friends to the hangout and we got there last. Pretty quickly after I got there one of them handed me an edible and said they had all already taken one. We get high pretty frequently together so this wasn't out of the ordinary. I ate the edible and got a drink.
Then we all sat on the couch and started talking about life etc. I drank my drink pretty fast and I've become a lightweight since college so I had a nice buzz going and felt that warm fuzzy feeling in my head and my chest. I also get anxiety and I'm pretty tense usually so after the drink I had loosened up and was feeling more giggly/comfortable. After a while they asked me if I was feeling the edible and I said yes because I assumed the start of it had kicked in with my drink. We were all giggly so I assumed everyone else was feeling the weed/alcohol too. They started laughing at me and told me it wasn't actually an edible just a regular peach ring, and that they thought if they gave it to me and lied about it, then I would lie and pretend I was high. I was trying to defend myself and the friend that I drove also defended me and said it was probably the alcohol. But nobody else believed me.
For some outside perspective, my brother recently got diagnosed with autism and ADHD and I suspect I might be neurodivergent as well. I was definitely always the weird kid and struggled socially. As I got older I diminished my personality and began mirroring other people, and people began to like me more. However, when I opened up, sometimes they would still get weirded out and pull away. Because of this I tend to be a people pleaser and agree a lot. I also have a lot of ADHD symptoms like being clumsy, struggling with directions /spatial skills and struggling to talk coherently. My friends have always made fun of me for this stuff but it seemed to be in good fun and I'd rib on them back so I never felt too put down by it.
I guess I just want an objective opinion on what to do from here because I don't really know what to think. Part of me feels like I'm overreacting because the prank hit something that's a big insecurity to me. Nobody has reached out to apologize and they don't seem to think they've done anything but a silly prank. I also played it off at the hangout so I never told them how much it hurt me.
But the other part of myself is so embarrassed because I can't see why they would do that except to put me down and embarrass me. Like I said I'm a people pleaser and tend to mirror other a lot so I can see why they'd think that of me. But the fact that they think I'm so pathetic really hurts. It also makes me worry that they talk badly about me when I'm not around and I'm the butt of their jokes.