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Thank you, @rainbowsandroses for your answer and time. You gave me another insight, and thank you for your kind words about my instincts and awareness are good. 😊

Thank you for your answer Kwothe28 😊 There is someone I have been talking online since 2 months. He said he likes me, but I said I am not sure and we should see each other face-to-face. He plans to come to my hometown. And, I mentioned this and him to my childhood friend yesterday. He was surprised that I am talking someone online in this regard, he said he wouldn't trust. He is right of course, one should always be cautious. Maybe I shouldn't have said this to him because nothing is certain with my online friend but I prefer open communication. Even though, now thinking about it. he doesn't tell me everything about his dating life. He just talked about once that he did chase girls during his school years. I am not saying he should say everything maybe he does this because he doesn't want to talk about other girls when he is with me.

Thank you for your answer ShySoul, it was very helpful. 😊 I am okay with my loved ones touching me but mostly I prefer my space. Or I don't initiate hugs or kisses. Actually, I do look forward when I think about it now. It isn't like we haven't seen each other for months, it is easy to get things going from where we left out.

I don’t know his relationship history exactly, I know that he dated with a girl I guess during last year but I heard that it was a short amount of time they were together. I am not certain how long he dated because he didn’t tell me he dated. I heard from my mom and she heard it from his mother. I always assume I know him but you are right people can change and I didn’t see all of the aspects of him, especially when he is in a relationship. LDR can be tough I agree and I will be very busy with my school work so it could be extra challenging to get into a relationship right now. I actually want to figure out my feelings first before I think about the relationship. I know there are lots of things to consider but I think it would be better to feel certain of my feelings. Thank you for your answer and time 😊

Hi everyone, I am a 25 year old female I have a male childhood friend of my age. We haven’t been in communication about 9 years because my family had to move to a different city then later university years came, we studied in different cities. When I graduated from university he texted to congratulate me. That’s when we started to talk again. When I come to my hometown on summers we started to meet and talk for hours because we haven’t been seen each other for months. This has been going on for two years, we don’t talk often through text or call when I am away during rest of the year. However, when we get together to meet face to face time flies really. He has always been nice to me. However since about 2 months I feel extra attention from him and I think he is more flirtatious when texting and during our meetings. He is also touchy and make compliments. I have always thought about him as a friend or I didn’t think of the idea if I like him romantically. I was afraid to ask him whether he likes me or not because I didn’t want to lose his friendship, his friendship is very dear to me. I can be vulnerable and myself with him. Today I asked him if he feels more than friendship. I told him I am inclined to be friends but your behavior makes me think you want more. He said he is not certain and it depends on me. Like his decision depends on mine. If I said I want more, he would have said he likes me. At least I thought about it like that because he didn’t exactly say he wants to be friends. Now that we talked about this, I found myself thinking again whether I like him or not. I enjoy spend time with him, like his sense of humor, and he listens to me attentively he genuinely cares about my feelings and my struggles. He always succeeds to make me laugh. I don’t think about him all the time to be honest and when he hugs me or puts his head on my shoulder to relax, I feel kinda weird or I should say tingly and this could be related with my shyness (I haven’t been in a relationship before). Or maybe I feel awkward, and I think this is not a good thing. If I like someone I would be comfortable with his touch. What do you think? Also, I think this relationship could be good on paper because we have known each other for years and our families are familiar, our dads were friends in their youth. I know I should make up my mind first whether I like him or not but I still think about logic too. What do you think and do you have any advice for my situation? Thank you for reading, I appreciate your answers. :)