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I shoot my shot and I missed. I got aired x

He has 3 children and I have 2 our lives are just as busy. We both co-parent with our ex partners so no one is trying to play step parent to anyones kid. Anyways he ddint reply my message and that is confrimation to me that he desont feel the same way.

Thank you very much you understood exactly how I feel and what I meant in the text. Unfortunately, he still hasn't replied and I guess it's safe to say he doesn't want anything more than what we had and I don't want what we had.

At the time of the hook up I did not know I was pregnant. Only found out a week later. And I do agree with you that he might just wanted to hook up because before the hook ups we had no prior conversations to determine the nature of our relationship which is why I sent him that message.

Maybe I failed articulate myself very well. He has 3 children already and I have 2 now. I co-parent with my ex and I don't need a father for my kids because they have one who is resposnible enough to look after them. I dont want anymore kids and I am on birth control. No I do not want to be a friends with benefits hence my message to him, he still hasn't replied. I guess its safe to say he doesnt feel the same way and thats okay too.

Hi, I'm new here. I have been talking to this guy since 2021. I really liked him but when we met I was fresh out of a toxic relationship and wasn't looking for anything but hookups because I felt I wasn't good enough to be in a committed relationship and was talking to a lot of people and just didn't take him seriously because he never expressed his intentions. We eventually hooked up and a few weeks later I found out I was pregnant and it wasn't his, I had hooked up with my ex prior. I decided to tell him the truth of my pregnancy in case he wanted to hook up again and wouldn't want to show up heavily pregnant. We continued talking on and off and never hooked up again. He came to visit when I was pregnant and when I had my baby. Just last week I went by his to see him since I was in his area he lives an hour away from me. I ended up sleeping over and one thing led to another. I am in love with this man. 2 days ago I decided to let him know how I feel and I haven't got a reply. This is what I said to him. I've got one shot at this life thing and honestly so does everyone else, the average person that is 😅 but the difference between me and the average person is my maturity allows me to be wrong, honest and vulnerable without feeling the need of validation or embarrassment. I can only own my truth and embrace it good and bad. We are grown and I’m done with the what if ? who am I trying to please ? I want you and wanting you doesn’t mean wife me now or title me no , wanting you means working towards what works for us, how best that is, only requires how best we do us. How do you feel about the idea of us dating, giving us a shot and see where this goes?