As we come to age 30, it is important for us to decide what mindset will serve us in our future years. From finances to relationships, making conscious decisions on how to approach our lives can have very beneficial consequences. Out of all the possible life choices, one lies in gaining the courage to practice telling the truth all the time, even when we might not feel like doing so.
It can be quite difficult to tell the truth all the time; after all, it isn’t easy to go against our human instinct which causes us to tell white lies. As humans, we are naturally wired to avoid conflict as much as possible, and by being honest, we run the risk of upsetting someone else or making things more difficult for ourselves.
However, the benefits of telling the truth with an unwavering stance start to show when we reach 30: no longer do we need to continually spin stories in order to get ourselves out of sticky situations or to save face. Honesty helps build trust in relationships, both platonic and romantic. It betters communication between two parties, removing the possibility of miscommunication or undermining. It allows us to put our cards on the table without fear, allowing us to get our point across without barriers.
Additionally, at this age, our mental well-being becomes more important than ever. We can no longer ignore our anxieties nor can we pretend there isn’t a problem in sight; thus, honing honesty from a young age can help us build a strong connection with our inner selves – an inner peace, if you will. With this peace comes a stronger sense of self-confidence and general satisfaction for life. Tackling any issues head-on up-front can prevent greater damage down the line, furthering the long-term good effects of being upfront and honest.
The dreamy butterfly-riddled skies of our twenties may be gone, but as we reach 30 we can still find a way to bloom. The Truth Pixie may seem like a distant memory when we make the transition into our thirties, however, it is still possible to tap into that same level of magical calmness through honesty. It’s never too late to learn how to constructively tackle problems, or how to build relationships based around trust, love and respect. We owe it to ourselves to clearly express our boundaries and our wants, regardless of the outcome.
At this age, our past decisions can no longer be completely made again. However, from here forward, our lives can take a new turn. With the conscious decision to practice a 100% level of honesty, whatever it takes, we can steer our lives in the direction we wish, one based on transparency and authenticity. Although the thought of saying it may induce fear and unease, the quicker we can get our emotional systems adjusted to honesty, the more fulfilling and enriching our lives may become.
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