That magical moment when you feel like she is interested in you can create all sorts of uncertainty. What if you make the wrong move or say the wrong thing? Suddenly all that nervousness makes it hard to act on those hints, no matter how obvious they may seem. Maybe she stares at you, makes comments here and there, or is extra flirty with you. All of these things are signs that she might be into you, but how can you be certain?
Sometimes, just paying attention to the little things that a woman does can give you some clarity on whether or not she is interested. Everything from body language to her interactions with you can be telling. Read on for some things to keep an eye out for, and learn more about what to do when she gives you hints that she wants you to ask her out.
Understanding Body Language
It's not always easy to determine whether or not someone is interested in you by just looking at them. Even if she seems to be making eye contact, holding your glance for a few seconds too long, or blushing when you catch her attention, this isn't always indicative of romantic interest. But if you take notice of other body language cues, it can help to reveal where her heart lies.
Look out for physical cues such as her stance, her position when she talks with you, and any leaning towards you. If a woman is interested in you, she’ll probably lean forward into the conversation and be closer to conversation without actually crossing any lines. Other body language cues include tilting her head to the side, laughing or smiling when you speak, and gently touching your arm during conversation. These kinds of ties allude to intimacy, and show that she would like to be closer to you.
Recognizing Her Feelings
Besides analyzing body language, another way to tell if a woman is interested in you is to take note of when she shows up around you. If she appears ‘out of the blue’ when you haven't pre-arranged the meeting, or if her presence becomes habitual, this is usually a good indication of her feelings. It’s also worth noting how she speaks to you. Is she attentive, responsive and eager to hear what you have to say? Does she ask questions about you and your life? Does she casually mention future plans? All of these are examples of flirting, and can give you a good indication that she’s interested in taking the next step. Be aware of your interactions and take note of any intimate details she brings into the conversations.
Handling Discomfort
She may very well be sending you signals, but it could be that you’re not confident enough to act. If asking someone out already scares you, it will be even worse if you don’t know for sure if the person actually reciprocates your feelings. The best thing to do in this situation is to stay calm and think through your options. It’s also important to remain honest and considerate. A good way to ‘test the waters’ is to invite her out in a group setting. This gives her space to provide subtle clues to her interest without forcing her to make an awkward move. In any case, try not to put too much pressure on yourself and your potential date, as picking up on love interests is a delicate art.
Accurately gauging someone else’s feelings can be tricky. Fortunately, with a bit of attention and patience, anyone can better understand what the person they’re interested in is trying to tell them. Paying close attention to subtle signs and hints can give you the best idea of what someone else is feeling. Sometimes, all it takes is a few observations to realize that the person is interested in you as much as you are interested in them.
Just remember to remain kind, patient and understanding in all your behaviours. Take your time and when you’re confident enough to make a move, act swiftly - you don’t want the opportunity to slip away from you!
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