The love that once flourished without fail can now be only a distant, yet painful memory. Reunited with your former flame, you find yourself confused and vulnerable, afraid of the feelings that have re-emerged. What to do when you find yourself falling for an ex all over again?
Age-old wisdom suggests you resist these emotions; that happiness lies in finding a new partner. But what if the thought is unappealing because you've never completely gotten over them?
It's normal to feel a resurgence of those same confusing and conflicting emotions. After all, the two of you once shared something special, a connection that has been hard to find elsewhere. However, whether it is the right decision to pursue a renewed relationship or even give it another shot depends on how you and your ex have progressed after the breakup.
Before you jump into anything, ask yourself: why have you decided to give it another go? Is this really a mutual decision, made out of respect and care for each other? Think hard about these questions and be honest. Have either of you moved on, or do unresolved issues remain?
Reconnecting and giving it another try must be done with great consideration and a lot of introspection. It goes without saying that open and successful communication is absolutely key. You need to emphasize that your dedication to each other assumes you’re both willing to put in the work. Stay true to your principles, no matter how much you may desire the path of least resistance.
It is also important to be kind and reasonable during this stage. Consider leaving the past where it belongs – behind you – rather than continuously rehashing pain and resentment. In addition, be sure to avoid all that third-party drama once and for all. Instead, focus on learning from past mistakes and making oneself a better, more mature partner.
In the end, it's up to you to decide whether or not to succumb to the temptation and try your luck at love. Just remember that this time, there is no expiration date.
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