Adam and Veronica were a young couple so in love that everyone around them envied their connection— or so it seemed. Adam had led Veronica to believe he would never betray her, but they weren't yet married. That did not stop him from breaking her heart when he left her for another woman.
The betrayal crushed Veronica, who fought tooth and nail to push away her sadness and get back on her own two feet. Everyone she knew warned her that Adam was likely to do it againif he eventually returned. Yet, there was not enough evidence to support the claim. He denied having any involvement with the woman, and despite his record, Veronica believed him.
Adam did come back to Veronica, apologizing profusely, and she allowed herself to fall into the warm embrace of bliss and joy. Little did she know that this naïve decision would end up destroying her life in the future.
About two years into their marriage, a friend of Veronica's stumbled upon some suspicious details regarding Adam’s out-of-town trips. When confronted, Adam confessed his nefarious acts, which included seeing another woman and lying about it. Veronica was so devastated by Adam's deceit, she could not bring herself to stay in the same house with him, even if it was only temporary.
The truth is, as many have feared, Adam is still likely to cheat again. Why? Because the problem lies in something much deeper - in his mental health, or lack thereof. Commitment and trust issues prevent Adam from being a faithful partner. He may appear to be the perfect spouse and father but in reality, this ‘perfection’ is nothing more than a facade, masking a deep-rooted fear of getting too close to someone and being rejected, or of being taken advantage of.
Signs of mental health issues like this one can manifest in a variety of ways - from extreme anxiety to regular bouts of anger and depression. In Adam's case, it shows in his desire to retreat from uncomfortable situations and relationships, such as his marriage. He finds an escape in cheating, since it allows him to satisfy his desires and maintain distance from any potential emotional connection with another person.
It can be hard to believe that a marriage can fall apart over something as stupid as cheating. But the truth is that infidelity isn't always necessarily a sign of a failed marriage. It can be a symptom of underlying issues such as anxiety, depression, and commitment issues. Unfortunately, Adam's behavior suggests that 'once a cheater, always a cheater' is likely to be true in his case due to his mental health.
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