Expressing gratitude and appreciation – there is no price tag too small or too great to put on those things. When a note or a gift just seems insufficient, what can one do to properly thank someone? Largely, the answer lies in giving some of the most precious gifts one can offer: time, energy, attention and support.
It sounds simple, but it takes a lot of effort to be able to truly immersal oneself in being able to serve another's needs. Challenging as it is however, the rewards far exceed any material ones that we can think of. This can come in the form of building a connection that becomes deeper and more meaningful with each passing moment.
Of course, time is limited for so many of us. We juggle between our responsibilities at work, taking care of our families, and finding time for ourselves. Should we impose limits on our ability to give if we cannot manage to find the time? The question itself invites an ironic response – the best way of displaying our gratitude might very well include our active effort to take charge of our own time.
By consciously making room for the other person in our schedule, we are conveying a powerful message: you deserve my attention and my time, as human beings. Think of a situation where you take the time to listen to a friend in need, seeking guidance or reassurance, or offer help to someone who needs it. Even spending time doing mundane tasks together, such as grocery shopping or cleaning out clutter, offers a degree of companionship and security for the other person.
Moreover, lending a helping hand does not always require getting down and dirty in physical labour. Sometimes all we have to do is to provide moral support from afar. Actions such as checking in with the recipient regularly, offering advice whenever applicable, or simply understanding and empathizing without trying to fix the other person gives them the love, support and space they need.
Perhaps the greatest gift one can give to another human being is the gift of presence. To be in the moment with someone, paying attention to their thoughts and emotions and paying tribute to their courage and spirit through our words, can create a beautiful exchange even without having to say anything. By silently conveying our support, we can open up opportunities for healing and growth, which is invaluable if not priceless.
To be able to thank someone deepest requires the presence of our hearts, our minds and our souls. Being able to give them this type of exchange can prove to create an absolute, profound and enduring impact, more than any material gift or note ever can.
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