As dawn beckons on the horizon, millions of companions find themselves scattered across the deep valleys and voluptuous mountains on the ardent trail of soul crossings. One might delude they have seen an eternity of searching, believing the next turn holds the promise of the golden domain of a loving, fulfilling partnership. Yet having traversed countless roads cradling momentous pain and indefatigable joys, one might realise that treasuring the shared moments mean more than both completeness of soul and entity entwined.
Everyone looks for something different in a relationship – the embrasure of family, the discovery of the beloved or the ease of growing old with the same soulmate purloined at first sight. But not all soulmates choose to stay together, instead they part their ways perhaps deciding to become soul crossings. A soul crossing is when two individuals, who love and care for each other deeply, walk distinct paths. While not in the same space, a single thought can bind them, affirming the inexpressible link between two souls untethered.
Human security is enrooted in the possession of another being - feeling appreciated, acknowledged and accepted. The fear of loss of a partner unleashes the agony in your deepest self, prohibiting you from making incredibly painful decisions. In certain cases, giving up on traditional bonds is the only option left to harmonise the entire being. The untold grief and rancor of sacrificing a lifelong companion can never be justified, however it is during such fractions of life that human resilience roars at its deafening best. Farsightedness and acceptance often becomes gifts as they learn that some relationships are meant to last a lifetime while other will blush previously unknown parts of themselves, slowly stretching them towards their highest potential.
To reckon the art of soul crossings requires you to look beyond the idea of soulmates, embracing the subtle notions around what truly belong to each of us. Each relationship brings its own incarnation of love – be it a spouse, family, friends or even those we once found our way through life with before painting new experiences. Namely, for some friendships are meant to last forever and for others serve as insightful meditations that lead us to our true destination. We may move within sight of others, pass them as our path shapeshift but somehow cross also, creating strong and unbreakable memories that feeds the ardor within.
Like a Chagall painting, soul crossings form a splendid masterpiece of love - multifaceted, each relationship resting in its own pool of emotion, energy and connection. As we say our final goodbye, the kaleidoscope of experiences sways us to discover the luster and apprehension of life like no other. The rewards of being alive, of surrendering to life's whimsical orison, of taking risks and making choices, is a abundant one and should be celebrated as much as finding our so-called ‘soulmates'.
It is crucial to recognise that not all soulmates stay together. In some cases, these distinct paths allow individuals to remove themselves from unfulfilling, toxic or controlling interactions, reimagine their own happiness and most importantly remember that life less lived, is not fully lived. As humans, we have all gone through different crossings and lived to tell the tales. The ones we don't tell are often the most powerful, intricate and yet so quietly, humbly and quickly whispered against the wind.
Recommended Comments
There are no comments to display.
Create an account or sign in to comment
You need to be a member in order to leave a comment
Create an account
Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!
Register a new accountSign in
Already have an account? Sign in here.
Sign In Now