“Does she like me?” It may be one of the oldest questions in the book, an age-old query dating back to our teenage years. This can be a difficult question to answer, as it often doesn’t have a single right or wrong answer. After all, the person you are trying to understand may be quite complex and layered.
If you’re struggling with this issue, the first thing to consider is whether her actions are matching her words. Has she indicated that she is interested in being more than friends but then acts in ways that suggest otherwise? Or do you feel as though perhaps you two would be better served as close friends more than anything else?
People don’t always show their true feelings about romantic relationships, so it can take some time for someone to come to terms with their own desires and to express them. And maybe that’s exactly why you aren’t sure if she likes you—she may be figuring out her feelings too.
Whomever you are trying to decipher, it’s important to take into account her gestures and your own emotions. What does your gut tell you about the situation? How does it make you feel, overall? Are you happy when you’re around her, or do you feel frustrated? Trust yourself to make sense of what’s real between you two and notice how the interaction is making you feel.
We might want the answer to this centuries-old problem to be clear and black-and-white, but many times it isn’t. There are so many different variables that come into play and you should take into consideration how various cultural and social norms could affect the situation. Society imposes certain expectations onto us that often lead us to evaluate our relationships as good or bad, right or wrong. But by refusing to do this, you can be better prepared to simply observe and accept whatever arises without judgment.
The best thing you can do is to enjoy the experience of getting to know someone new. Let go of your expectations, and stay open to whatever the future may bring.
Sometimes, the answer to “does she like me?” will become evident in time. You have the power to determine what makes you happy and discover whether or not this particular individual could be part of your life. But remember to let go of the outcome, and instead focus on the journey of self-discovery. When you rely on your intuition and open your heart to whatever may come, chances are you will find the true answers you’re seeking.
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