For those experiencing intimate turmoil, there is one universal truth: it’s never easy. When love plays a role in deciding a course of action, making that decision can feel as if you’re attempting to balance between two sides of a scale. This is especially true when the relationship in question concerns an Ex-fiance. Though it may seem daunting, don’t be discouraged; making the right decision and looking towards the future will result in the best possible ending for everyone involved.
When someone’s heart still holds onto the love that comes with past relationships, it is often difficult to remain impartial to the situation at hand. That’s why it’s important for you to take some needed time for yourself and to review the facts of your relationship alone. During these moments away, process the mechanics of your relationship objectively: what worked, what didn’t work, and why did it end the way that it did?
Though it may sound counterintuitive, revisiting these questions might be just the guidance you need to make an informed and empowered decision. Ask yourself honestly: does this person contribute to me feeling peaceably happy when interacting with them, or solely filled with frustration about the past? Everyone has a different threshold for forgiveness, and only you truly know how much we can tolerate. Is this a relationship that can be salvaged or are both parties eventually headed to a place of no return?
We do things in the past that haunt us and it is vunerable to love with the same intensity again. The feelings and memories associated with an ex-fiance can be painful, heartbreaking, and evergreen. Finding someone new to love as deeply as before may feel daunting and often impossible. But sometimes it’s beneficial to look at the entire scenario with a wider lens. Though the person who was once your fiancé has become someone from your past, the reasons why you loved them in the first place are still the same. Consider yourself lucky that those qualities are undeniable parts of that person. Love does not fade easily and if it’s present then it grows for a reason.
Being stuck in limbo between the past and the future can be confusing and overwhelming. With every hard decision comes potentially life-changing consequences. So take your time, look inwards for answers, and be gentle with yourself. Many people make decisions through their hearts but it’s important to give yourself permission to think logically and make rational choices. Despite how long the road ahead may be, stay brave and optimistic: fight for yourself and often times your future self will thank you too.
Deciding an outcome with an ex-fiance may seem painful and intimidating, but sometimes understanding that it’s ok to move forward is the most loving choice of all. Taking risks in the name of growth could very well pay off in the end. Looking forward to the future is often scary, but worth it in the long run.
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