Every relationship has its challenges but long distance relationships have unique difficulties that can be trying and emotionally taxing. Social media and technology make it easier to stay connected, but nothing can replace spending time with someone in person especially when there's a yearning for intimacy that cannot be quenched. The joy of finally being reunited is heavenly for long distance couples, but the pain of waiting can become unbearable.
Marilyn had been in a relationship with her partner, Michael, for two years. For the majority of their relationship, the couple lived across the country from one another, so the amount of time they could spend together was limited. Even care packages, video calls, and text messages couldn't make up for their infrequent physical contact. Marilyn found herself struggling with the emotional toll of being separated and struggling to cope with the pain of waiting. She would find herself experiencing bouts of doubt and anxiety surrounding the future of their relationship.
Long distance relationships put individuals through an emotional buffet. One day might bring feelings of intense loneliness and the next may be filled with anticipation for the next time the couple can see one another. It's important to acknowledge these emotions as part of the difficult parts of being in a long-distance relationship so you can manage them better. When her emotions were getting the best of her, Marilyn would take a breath and remind herself of how special their relationship is and why she cherishes their bond.
To make things easier, Marilyn and Michael plan out the times when they will visit each other months in advance. That way, they are both looking forward to the same future rather than worrying about being apart. As their visits became more frequent, Marilyn started utilizing the time apart more effectively by setting personal and professional goals. She could then surprise him with her accomplishments on their next reunion.
Though time apart will always present a challenge to every couple in a long-distance relationship, there are methods to minimize the pain of waiting. Maintaining a healthy relationship at the core is essential; communication should remain honest, frequent, and open-ended. Furthermore, taking time to invest in other things like education, professional achievements, or hobbies will take your mind off of waiting and promote self-care. Both Marilyn and Michael found all these tactics helpful in dealing with their separations and ultimately grew stronger in their love for each other.
Marilyn’s longing for Michael had become a companion of sorts, a steady pressure that kept her moving forward despite her loneliness. She understood that both Michael and she would eventually succumb to the distance, but for now, the only thing she could do was hang on to the faith that their love was strong enough to see her through until they where together again.
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