I'm in kind of an odd situation and there's no one else around me I feel I can ask about it. The thing is this: There's a girl at my school, my age, and I can't tell if she's interested in me or not.
I've been stealing glances at her from time to time, noticing when she looks my way or when she acts differently around me than other people. At first, I just thought she was being nice, but then I started to believe that there might be something more.
Recently, I asked her out and she said yes. We went out on a few dates and had a great time each time. It felt like she genuinely enjoyed spending time with me, and yet I couldn't help but feel like she wasn't completely into me.
The thing is that after our last date, she stopped responding to my texts. We haven't talked since then and I'm not sure what to make of it. Did I read too much into the situation? Did she just not feel the same way and was too kind to reject me straight away? Or, maybe, am I just overthinking all of this and she simply had other plans?
There's really no one I can turn to and ask for an advice, so I'm hoping you'll be able to provide me with some guidance. What are the signs that would tell me if she's genuinely interested in me or not? How do I find out if she likes me without cornering her?
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Deciphering if a woman is interested in you or not can be tricky - and you're certainly not alone in this situation. While women aren't always the best at expressing their feelings and intentions, there are still some common indicators that can help you find the answer.
The first and most obvious sign is if you two are continuing to hang out. If she still replies to your messages and agrees to meet up with you, then she likely enjoys being in your presence and might even reciprocate any romantic feelings you have. It also doesn't hurt to take some careful notes of her body language as well. For instance, if she's making eye contact with you more than with other people and seeming to enjoy your company, chances are she likes you back. She may even end up touching your arm or shoulder when talking in order to indicate her attraction.
While these indicators may show that she's interested in you, it doesn't mean that there is anything for sure. After all, communication is the core of any relationship. If you think that she's interested in you, don't be afraid to make your feelings for her known in a non-confrontational way. Try to make some casual jokes or compliments here and there or ask her to do something with you as friends. You can also ease into discussing something more serious. This way, you can make it through the conversations while gauging how she feels if the topic intensifies.
The bottom line is that before you can determine if the girl in question is interested in you or not, it's important to take notice of the environment and cues surrounding your relationship. Pay attention to what she says, how she behaves and if it lines up with how you feel. Once you're able to talk to her openly, things will become much more clear.
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