Have you ever found yourself in a situation where, despite the fact that you still loved them, your relationship with your partner seemed to be on the edge of an abyss that was slowly and inevitably coming closer each day? It is an extremely painful and difficult situation to be in, and it can lead to massive amounts of stress, anguish and confusion. How can you possibly save a relationship when you still love them and yet things seem broken beyond repair?
The first decision that you must make is to take a step back and remember that it is not only about how much you still love them. If your current relationship is not working, then it is likely due to other issues such as miscommunication, not valuing the other, or simply not staying true to your word and sticking to the boundaries of the two of you. These problems can never be fixed by one person alone; both of need to put every effort into making sure that a deeper understanding and trust between the two of you is achieved.
Setting personal boundaries that are respected and adhered to is also essential for the health of your relationship. Boundaries can range from anything such as the deciding the length of time you will spend talking to one another day-to-day, to the boundaries that go beyond what is socially acceptable in terms of intimacy. Setting boundaries will prevent either person in the relationship feeling taken advantage of, or used. It is important to be able to understand what the other person needs out of a relationship, and be able to accommodate those needs without compromising yours.
Conflict resolution is also vital when it comes to saving a relationship when one still loves them, especially if the same conflicts keep appearing in your day-to-day lives together. It is often hard to come up with solutions when faced with such a situation, but it is important to both learn how to manage conflict in a healthy way, and to understand what works for both of you. This can be accomplished through learning how to communicate better with each other, and by being honest about your feelings when faced with a disagreement.
Creating a solid foundation for the relationship can help to stop it from crumbling beneath you. This includes being familiar with each other’s needs, being honest and open with one another, and understanding your partner’s deepest hopes, fears, dreams and life values. Doing this makes it easier to move beyond any disagreements, and creates a bond that is capable of tackling any bumps along the way with strength and patience.
Finally, it is important to remember not to give up if you feel like your relationship is faltering. Though it may seem impossible sometimes, it is worth fighting for a relationship if you still love them with all of your heart and soul. Remember, it takes two people to maintain an entire relationship, so do not expect to do it all on your own. All relationships have their ups and downs, but with dedication, love and understanding, they can become something greater.
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