No matter the amount of love, commitment, and shared interests that a couple may have, different political and religious beliefs often can create a divide of seemingly insurmountable proportions. It leaves couples exhausted, depressed, and feeling helpless – leading some down the road of unsuccessful relationships and marriages. But the good news is – it doesn’t have to be this way. If a couple enters into an open dialogue and finds ways to compromise, a relationship can be successful in spite of different political or religious beliefs.
It starts by really understanding and acknowledging each other’s differences. Being aware of what the other person believes can be incredibly important. Learning how those beliefs are formulated and how each person arrived to their conclusions can provide insight into why someone holds their particular beliefs. Understanding and empathy for their viewpoint is key to effectively communication about controversial topics.
Once a couple has come to better understand each other’s views, it’s time to compromise. This can be challenging when feelings get hurt, especially when each partner feels very strongly about their beliefs. As self-awareness grows, it’s important to start identifying areas in which both people have common ground. Focusing on areas of agreement can be a way to pave over the divide while still avoiding conversations if topics become uncomfortable.
One of the best ways to successfully handle a partner with different political or religious beliefs is to find a way to make sure neither person ends up feeling like they’ve lost the battle. Both partners need to understand that their beliefs can still be respected even if they aren’t the same. Negotiating and compromising about different beliefs can teach each partner to be flexible and show patience and understanding for one another. It allows for a sense of equality and eliminates any felt power differential between partners.
Finding solace in humor can also help bridge the gap between two partners with different beliefs. Even though challenging conversation topics can get heated and leave one feeling embarrassed or uneasy, the lighthearted exchange of jokes or a shared laugh can help ease tensions. A couple should also keep in mind that it’s OK for couples to disagree. Yes, it’s important to understand each other’s beliefs, but each person also has the right to their own opinions and feelings. It’s important to not force change upon one another; this is a recipe for disaster.
Of course, no two relationships are alike, and what works for one couple may not work for another. But with time and communication, couples can navigate different political or religious beliefs – the great divide – while still maintaining strong and healthy relationships.
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