When it comes to taking the plunge and moving in with your partner, there are a few things to consider. While it can be an exciting life step, there's much more to think about than just sharing a living space — you should ask yourself if you’re both truly ready before making this big commitment.
What's important to understand is that relationship status isn't necessarily connected to whether you and your partner are ready to cohabit. Whether you are engaged, dating, or married, the best way to gauge how prepared you two are for living together is to evaluate whether you're living in alignment with your core values, expectations, and goals.
The first step is to prioritize honest communication. Take a beat to go over what each of you looks forward to getting out of living together — because moving in doesn't mean everything has to stay the same. More importantly, talk through the triggers and triggers that could lead to disagreements. Knowing ahead of time how you'll handle any arguments when they come up can have an enormous impact on the success of cohabitation.
Also consider big-picture things like money and finances. When you begin to share a space, you need to have conversations about personal budgeting, who will pay for major expenses and bills, and how you will manage these expenditures. By discussing these topics aligned with both your individual and collective values, you create a plan for the future that ensures both of your needs are met.
When considering moving in with your partner, ask yourself: Do I feel loved and supported in my current dynamic? Do I respect and admire their values and perspectives? Do I feel heard and reignited by their presence? Building a foundation of trust, support, and companionship is key to loving, healthy living decisions. If you can answer yes to those questions, chances are you are on the right path towards being ready for cohabitation.
Investigate how much you two truly know about each other, too. Living with your partner reveals many sides of a person in ways you might not expect. Conversations about pet peeves, little habits, and daily routines are a few that should all be taken into consideration when vetting readiness.
Start by asking yourself if the relationship is solid enough, if the financials all make sense, if you know and understand each other well, and if you both feel ready and excited to take the plunge. These considerations will help you each make an informed decision, so that you can gain clarity on whether you’re both ready to move in together.
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