In a world of many conflicts, when facing temptation is inevitable, trying to cling onto that one beloved person in order to find Heaven on Earth can seem like the greatest of challenges. For those who dare to look beyond the spark of an initial attraction and the sheer physical aspects of a relationship and strive to bring out the best in each other, this pursuit of understanding, chemistry, and compatibility can be both beautiful and sacred. As is said, "You get the best version of me when I see you are trying to be the best version of you. That energy is contagious. When you have this type of chemistry with someone built on learning from each other, you become so much stronger together as individuals."
This chemistry between two people is an innate thing, virtually impossible to explain in words or imprecisely quantify and often difficult to come by. It cannot be purchased, sold, or forced -- it must be found, nurtured, and grown organically. Some may accept and believe that some couples are meant to find one another, and yet often love does not stand a chance against great distances of both space and time, or immense cultural differences, or rigid family objections, or even an old proverb that warns against an unfathomable age gap between partners. Regardless of what the obstacles may be, the singular desire to break through them all and live on in harmony carries the potential to overtake all other sensations and emotions.
But what exactly drives one to go all-in when it comes to such a bond? What is it that stirs up a sense of recognition within us, that calls out to us in a familiar way, that completely and utterly mesmerizes us? Perhaps more accurately, what specifically causes us to feel connected, understood, and fulfilled by that one person while being contented with no one else?
A sense of reciprocity seems to play a key role here. Of course, any good and genuine relationship involves respect and compassion for one another, communicating and understanding each other’s feelings, providing unconditional support and encouragement for one another, and lending a helping hand in times of need. But until two hearts united by love are at one in their mutual feelings for, and reactions to, one another, a few hundred frank conversations and thousands of agreeable behaviors will never be enough to make true connections.
When two equals are willing to learn from each other, to inspire and be inspired in turn, then each individual gains invaluable insight and experience from the journey, which eventually leads to an incomparable duration of personal growth and maturation. Thus the combination of one-hit-wonders and “been there, done that” matches can never compare to time spent with a soul mate.
This self-realization is empowering, providing freedom and opportunity beyond what one could think possible. The break free mentality in such a setting creates a deep connection and transforms the simple pleasure of being around your beloved into something else entirely – a deep sense of completeness that envelopes you. Freely sharing your thoughts and dreams, aspirations and values with someone you trust never goes astray, with both partners becoming stronger as a result. It is celebrated for good reason when two individuals manage to find such a balance together, surrounded by admiration and envy from others.
So when it comes to the happiest of life moments, spending quality time with your special someone offers the kind of joy that none other can provide. You become part of a heavenly embrace, watching your smile mirror his and knowing that you have found the one person in this world who can bring out the best in you and sees your worth. Wouldn’t it be nice to find him/her, and cherish these precious sequences of interconnectivity? They might be rare, but heaven on Earth is attainable, if you can find the right person and actively strive to bring out the best in them.
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