We’ve all experienced heartache at some point or another in our lives - the loss of a love that we cherished. But, what happens when you still have strong feelings and have unresolved issues, even when the connection between you and your beloved is long gone? Is it time to accept things as they are, or can the flame be rekindled if the right conditions are met?
Dealing with the aftermath of a broken relationship can be a challenging period of self-reflection. After all, your emotions and thoughts may still be jumbled up, but despite it all, you still feel like this person is the one for you. Oftentimes, it is hard to make sense of such a situation and our minds become clouded by confusion and doubt.
When it comes to matters of the heart, embracing what life has to offer can help bring about clarity. We mustn’t let feelings of guilt become a burden, because admitting our mistakes doesn’t mean that we completely deny ourselves from seeking new beginnings. If you want to try to reignite the spark with your former flame, opening up about how you continue to feel about them is the first step. It’s important to formulate your thoughts and choose your words carefully when communicating your intentions.
Putting your hurt on the back burner and getting a fresh perspective can also go a long way. Keeping a nomadic spirit alive can be a helpful ally to “think outside the box” and bring some distance from your emotional distress. Obtaining insights from the new experiences encountered while travelling can open up the doors to new opportunities and enable opportunities to mend broken bridges.
Romanticizing the power of love should never be discounted, since that can be a marvelous force of inspiration. We have a right to choose our own destiny, no matter how dim their future may appear. The flame can always be rekindled if kept alive within, as courage and determination is the key to unlocking new hope.
Courage isn’t always synonymous with strength, but rather the ability to face confrontation and make decisions with confidence. It is good to shake up your current emotional state in order to take a closer look and reassess where you, and more importantly, how you stand. Above all else, mustering up the bravery to move forward is the only way to address the situation and resolve any unanswered issues.
Often times, our goals cannot be achieved independently and enlisting outside assistance can be effective. Mental health professionals, close friends, and family members are great resources. Everyone deals with heartache differently and they can provide constructive advice while providing a sense of security during a difficult time.
Hardening your heart too much in order to cope with an awkward and compromising situation fast isn’t the best solution. Neither is trying to run away and suppress unresolved conflicts. Put words into action, take your chances and follow your heart!
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