Navigating through relationships is most of the times complicated and emotionally taxing. The deeper you travel into the emotional abyss of a relationship, the harder it is to make well thought decisions in terms of what’s right or wrong for each party. This is why sometimes when people experience a crucial moment in their relationship where an important decision has to be taken with regards to what sort of outcome both parties want for the future, some of them opt for a thirty day break from their partner.
Taking a thirty day break from your partner means to step away from the emotional entanglement of the intimate relationship and instead help yourself gain perspective on the situation, your needs and feelings. During that time you can reflect on both your part and your partner’s in the relationship, on the things you care about, and possible changes that may need to be implemented to keep the relationship afloat. But at times, even such an endeavor tempts your mind to wander in opposite directions. You suddenly find yourself caught between what-ifs and why-nots and you can’t decide if it’s better to stay in the relationship or not.
If you are currently in such a situation, it’s essential to understand that taking a break doesn’t mean running away from your relationship issues in order to avoid facing its challenges. What it does imply is that you are leaving your relationship in an effort to give yourself enough space to reflect upon what you want and need from it. But no matter the decision you make in the end, whether you stay with your partner or decide to go in separate ways, it is of immense importance not to act impulsively and face the situation with empathy and understanding. Hurried decisions can often lead to even greater regrets.
The actual change you seek should be actively sought after even during the break. This means that while in it, don't completely detach yourself from the problem at hand but seek ways to approach it with better understanding and clarity. Making subtle changes can have miraculous effects, as well as trying to look at the situation through your partner’s eyes and find the best solution for both of you. Utilizing a third person or a professional to get unbiased advice can also help clear up some of the confusion.
Now, considering all said above, the decision of taking a thirty day break is a tricky one. Even if in the end it proves to be the best solution, it should be taken very carefully, with an open heart and clarity of mind, in the effort of finding the perfect balance between what would benefit you and your partner. Whether the break concludes to a satisfying and successful resolution for both of you or not, the confidence that comes from knowing that you tried your best in examining the situation from multiple angles will certainly be invaluable.
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