I have been with my partner for two years now, and as of late, I have been questioning if I am with the right person. We have a lot of differences and while they used to add excitement and spice to our relationship, they are starting to push us apart. Even though we love each other and care deeply for each other, I'm beginning to question if this is the right path for us. I'm not sure what to do, because I can't tell if the differences will be a problem down the line and if this relationship is better left in the past.
It is natural to feel ambiguity when faced with an impending decision such as this. Before jumping to any conclusions, it is important to reflect on your overall happiness within the relationship. Have there been any big changes in the dynamic between you two? Is your partner exhibiting any red flags that could signal potential danger or harm to the relationship in the future? Do the differences in opinion cause turmoil or are they relatively small and manageable?
Your feelings today may not be reflective of how you feel tomorrow even, let alone a few months down the line. It is also essential to examine the reasons why you had originally chosen to pursue a relationship with your partner – were those values compatible with yours? While it is perfectly acceptable to reassess a relationship or marriage, it should not be done lightly as there are many factors to consider.
If the differences between you overshadowed the love, consider implementing a period of reflection by taking a break from the relationship. During this time, talk with a trusted friend, family member, or counselor to get a different perspective and practice self-care. With their help, try to determine if the differences can be resolved and negotiate terms if needed. Through introspection, journaling and honest dialogue you may come to realize that despite your differences which created discord no person will love you more than your partner. A strong connection is sometimes too difficult to relinquish and could be indicative that your relationship should continue.
However, if you find yourself wondering if the relationship is the right one for you, proceed with caution. Trying to force a relationship to work can potentially lead to further resentment and may not be worth the effort. Are your needs and desires being met? Can you see yourself committing to them for the foreseeable future?
Only you can answer these questions in the end. Trust your intuition and look at the pros and cons of staying with your partner versus pursuing a different future. It is best not to rush into any rash decisions and prance on the precipice of the unknown. Seek validation and advice from your peers, but in the end make sure it is you who is making the decision.
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