In today's uncertain world, it is easy to become caught up in fatalistic thinking and search for solace and guidance from those who promise to offer us simple answers that explain away the complexity of life. We often cling to comforting fables and proverbs that provide us with a false sense of security in our circumstances. “Everything happens for a reason” is a popular expression that gives us the ability to brush off any incident or experience as predetermined and our own actions as inconsequential. Unfortunately, this type of thinking can become an obstacle to making meaningful changes in our lives.
The truth is, our actions do matter and we are able to improve our circumstances if we approach our lives with a realistic outlook. This means, first of all, rejecting fatalistic thinking and recognizing that no matter how hard life may seem, we have the power to shape our future. Our lives are not predetermined and only we who can decide our fate. This idea can be difficult to accept, especially if we have been led to believe that our present circumstances are a result of a divine design. To be able to challenge these preconceptions, we first need to recognize the limitations of our current beliefs and be willing to step outside the comfort zone and take responsibility for our own lives.
Achieving a realistic outlook requires more than a change in mindset, however. It requires daily practice and effort to view our lives objectively. All of us have bias which may blind us to our limitations and deter us from accurately assessing our existing situations or taking action to improve them. It also takes becoming aware of our own motivations, surrendering control to ourselves, and putting trust in our own judgement. Instead of depending on others to tell us what decisions to make, or expecting a higher power to show us the way, we must learn to rely on ourselves and draw wisdom from our own experiences. We can use our past successes and mistakes to help us reach a better understanding of our purpose in life, and actively pursue what bring us joy and fulfilment.
To get back on track and stay there, we must also develop a system to keep ourselves accountable. Setting goals for ourselves, creating habits around our tasks, and consistently working towards our objectives can enable us to remain focused on our journey. Moreover, having people we could confide in, who could remind us of our goals can be very helpful. Having supportive friends and family members who understand our struggles and can lend us a hand when necessary can boost confidence and increase our resilience, enabling us to stay the course despite all the life’s upheavals.
Having a realistic outlook on life is all about being conscious of our reality and embracing it with courage and optimism. Refraining from attaching ourselves to uncontrollable external events allows us to focus on creating positive change within our reach. It enables us to discover our individual strengths and to take risks in order to achieve results. This is, in essence, the key to finding true purpose in our lives and to residing in a place of joy and contentment.
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