Whoever said life was easy? We all go through moments in life when we find ourselves a bit lost and perhaps even a bit confused about the direction our lives are heading. Whether you have recently graduated from college, have recently moved to a new area, or feel stuck in a boring job, understanding how to move forward in life can be a daunting task. Even if you are in a good situation, trying to figure out what to do next and how to transition through life’s challenges managed with a steady hand can be incredibly stressful.
While everyone's path is unique, there are certain universal truths that apply to all of us when trying to understand where we want to go in life. Consider the following ideas as you try to navigate the winding road that lays before you-
1. Take some time to reflect
When you are feeling confused or uncertain, it's important to take some time for yourself to really connect with yourself and assess your current situation. Ask yourself tough questions. What do I really want in life? What values matter to me? What is my comfort zone and what am I brave enough to leave it behind? Having a few uninterrupted moments to reflect on your own without getting caught up in the everyday hustle and bustle of life can be an invaluable tool when trying to sort out the answers to your most difficult questions.
2. Acknowledge your feelings
All too often, we try to ignore or push away unpleasant feelings such as confusion, doubt, or fear. However, this can actually do more harm then good. Acknowledge these feelings and give them a place to exist, as they can often bring us valuable insight into our own distress. Trusted friends and family members can help you here too. Spend time talking and listening to their perspectives, as sometimes it requires an outside perspective to provide clarity.
3. Remember that life is a journey
It can be tempting to fixate on one single goal and to try to reach this with immediate success. However, it's important to remember that life is a process, with each step forward bringing us closer to our ultimate dreams and goals. Maybe you haven't gotten a job yet, or maybe you haven't received that promotion that you wanted. Don’t get too hung up on one particular outcome. Process every experience as a learning opportunity, put your time and effort into the work that you enjoy, and know that each step will bring you closer to your desired destination.
4. Believe in yourself
It’s important to believe in yourself and trust that you can make it through this period of transition. Your perspectives are valid, your goals are achievable, and your future is open and awaiting you. Take each day and action as a positive step forward and draw confidence from the progress that you have made. Keeping a positive attitude can often be the secret to success.
Making sense of life’s complexities and ambivalence never comes easily. Give yourself permission to feel whatever emotions come up, to ask tough questions, and to reach out for support where needed. With a little perseverance and courage, you can make it through the storm and come out the other side happy and fulfilled.
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