Practicing nonjudgment can be the difference between a successful, fulfilled life and one that is aimless and filled with discontent. In the current “speak your mind” culture, it takes a special strength of character to remain non-judgmental-- a strength that is often overlooked by those who cannot yet muster the courage to put themselves out there and risk being seen as “weak” or “too nice”. However, it is this very same strength and willingness to accept rather than judge that often leads to increased happiness and success.
There is a common misconception that non-judgmental people simply become doormats and take on too much in order to make others happy. While there are always situations where someone may need to step back and adjust their approach, this does not have to be the case all the time. Nonjudgmental people may find more meaningful ways to connect with others, express their viewpoint, and take charge of their own lives.
The first step to becoming a non-judgmental person is understanding and accepting that everyone is unique. This means stopping the comparisons and accepting that others are doing the best they can, just like you are. Everyone has something valuable to offer and doesn’t need another person judging their every move. When we don’t compare ourselves to others, we can embrace our own uniqueness. Valuable relationships are then formed, since we are no longer trying to compete for anyone’s approval and admiration. This can lead to greater job opportunities, healthier friendships, and most importantly, inner peace.
Secondly, non-judgmental people take responsibility for their reactions and for the consequences of their actions, even if these were unintentional. Taking responsibility also means forgiving oneself when mistakes occur. If a nonjudgmental person ever reacts in an unkind, cynical, or rude way, they learn from the experience and use it as an opportunity to grow while other people may get defensive and point fingers elsewhere.
Thirdly, non-judgmental people know the power of connection. They understand the importance of building relationships and forming meaningful connections, regardless of background and beliefs. As a result, these people become an inspiration for others who want to be accepted for who they are, as opposed to being judged for their differences.
Non-judgmental people possess a sense of empathy. Since they do not put themselves first, these people often strive to understand where others are coming from and will do what they can to help out. When situations that involve compassion and understanding arise, they know the right thing to do because they are so strongly tuned into their feelings. It takes guts to be kind and take the less-traveled road. Non-judgmental people are happier, more successful careers and stronger relationships because they realize that all of us have something valuable to give, no matter how different we may at first glance.
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