Independence, to me, doesn't mean you'll stop working. It means you only do the work you like with people you like at the times you want for as long as you want.
We all strive to achieve independence in one way or another – some seek territorial freedom and others, financial stability. In either case, a certain level of control over our lives is symbolized. To have that control is a liberating feeling; it grants us the ability to take risks and step out of our comfort zone with more confidence.
The idea of having full autonomy over how we spend our time and energy can be daunting, especially considering the social pressure to belong. It becomes an even more pressing question when thinking about our professional lives – after all, that's when we're expected to (among other things) make money, acquire skills and gain experience.
Contrary to popular belief though, I'd wager that independence doesn't always come with giving up gainful employment. Instead, it involves carefully balancing personal interests with what might be financially beneficial or socially acceptable in order for us to live our most authentic life. The stress of having to keep both sides in equilibrium does not have to be overwhelming; if we put forth the effort and manage our resources wisely, the rewards can be great.
The key to finding success – however you define it – lies in your ability to recognize and use your strengths effectively, while utilizing the support of those around you when necessary. This can be done by building relationships based on mutual trust and respect. Collaborating with those who share similar values and vision will motivate us to push ourselves further, encouraging us to take risks without fear of failure.
Furthermore, it is important for us to learn how to set boundaries when it comes to our time and energy – this could range from knowing exactly what tasks are required of us in a job or maintaining healthy interpersonal relationships. Doing so ensures that we remain in control of our own lives. Having proper support from family and friends will also make it much easier as we journey inwards towards self-actualization.
Having complete autonomy is something everyone should strive for – being able to live in accordance with our own standards without dependence on society's traditional expectations is a sign of true independence. Independence, to me, isn't an isolated state of ‘non-working'; rather, it is a point at which you recognize the power of having control over what you do, who you work with and how long you dedicate yourself to a task. Making wise decisions that honor our individuality, while still adhering to valid norms and regulations is a skill we must hone if we're to attain lasting fulfillment in any aspect of our lives.
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